Re: Zero Tolerance... or can it be forgiven?
If a husband is going to cheat you really can't do anything about it, you can't force him to be faithful or have him wear a beeper everywhere he goes. I just wanna make sure that i'm self sufficient just in case a situation like this will happen.
I don't know whether I could forgive him or not, but I think the relationship won't be exactly the same as before.
I know a couple that was in that forgive or no tolerance situation. The man was in the United States trying to get his masters and the wife was in India waiting for all the visa issues to be resolved. Five years passed and the husband was living with his sister in law(married to his brother) at the time. I don't know exactly what went on in that apartment but the man ended up having an affair with his sis-in-law. After he got his wife over here, he didn't tell her about the affair until after they had their two kids and then just couldn't keep it in anymore i guess. Somehow his wife forgave him but she went through a time when she couldn't eat anything and she looked like a skeleton.