Zahra Haiders Article about relationships in Pakistan

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Re: Zahra Haiders Article about relationships in Pakistan

@newbee13

I don’t understand the point she’s trying to communicate by this article but to me it seemed pretty pointless. This is not at all about relationships. Having a dozen partners before 19.. Open discussions over sex.. I mean being modern and open minded is one thing. This is behayaye.. Sex is a personal act, you do not publicize it. It’s intimate depending on how you see it..because from the article it just seems like she has lust. Why does she want the society to accept it?
Would she want her daughter to be grown in such an environment?

It is a natural function whose denying it? But do you have to share it with the whole neighborhood?

I’ve had relationships, a long engagement and a two year nikkah. We never had sex before and I was happy because I believed some things should happen at the right time.

Those were your beliefs and these are hers. No one stopped you from waiting for two years and no one should stop her from doing it with the whole cricket team. That’s her point I guess. Freedom to do things her way.