Zahra Haiders Article about relationships in Pakistan

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Re: Zahra Haiders Article about relationships in Pakistan

@terebina786

Did I misread something? Where does it state she was being unfaithful?

**How do you know she’s not mature enough to protect herself from HIV and STDs? **You don’t know that these were one night stands or partners she’s known. People don’t give the younger generation credit for their knowledge on these things. I knew far more than I let on at her age because I wanted to educate myself because I know my parents weren’t going to.

Also, just because of someone’s questionable history does not make them susceptible to questionable partners. In fact, I know a lot of girls who’ve hid their sexual history or intend to with their future partner because they don’t want to be judged because it’s not what these supposed “decent” guys want to hear. Which, IMO, is worse than being transparent.

Because no one who is actually concerned about this stuff would sleep with this many people. Do you really think all these people she had sex with were shareef seedhay saadhay boys? Would guys in good relationships sleep her? Would religious, traditional, and guys who come from decent families sleep with her knowing she is proud of being a slut? The only ones who would agree to stoop to her level would be people like her. How mature is she if she slept around knowing the risks and the fact that her parents were probably extremely ashamed of her acts? If she thinks she will find a faithful guy after her proclamation of sluthood, she is in for a surprise. Sure, transparency is good but when it’s chock full of mistakes and stupidity then it’s probably better not to be so transparent.

I am especially mad because she is using her irreligiousness to justify her sexual rendezvous as if being less religious automatically makes one a slut. WTF?