You're married, what's next?

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Re: You’re married, what’s next?

@firenze

I consider myself newly wed its been six months now. The most hectic days of my life, you have no idea period.

1. Get married - normally we never plan for expenditures so we suffer in the end.

2. Time to create “home”, trust me it will squeeze every penny out of you

3. Regardless of everything is perfect with inlaws, ami/aba, hubby/wifey - there are others the extended family, they will create issues from there asses.

4. “tu phir kya program hai?” - why everyone in desi world have to push you to make a baby?

5. Unexpected expenditures, cousin/friend birthday,marriage, goodh barahi, etc..etc..came up ..

6. Emo Issues/Mood swings every month, seriously !

7. After marriage, until your hubby is king of Prussia or some high-fi businessman you will plan for your every single shopping spree - you will starting to save coupons which you never cared before marriage.

8. Every couple have to come to kitchen table to plan expenses either in first month, second or sixth … you just can’t keep doing what you were doing before.

9. Designer shoes/clothes/hand bags? hahahaha - I used to buy Italian shoes only, after marriage you can found me only on Steve Maden .. not far from Payless. “A shirt of Fendi cost 300$, hmm well same material & quite-close design why not buy it from Macys” this is just the glimpse of thought process.

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