Your Wife's Past

[parissenoor]

Re: Your Wife's Past

@shweetdreamz

feminism...more like a curse word today. anyways if it was not for feminism most of us women would not probably even be here posting on this forum expressing our thoughts this openly while sitting in our offices. we take alot for granted. anyways as far as getting married and having kids is concerned, it is a personal choice and i believe it is all about having the freedom to make that choice....even after marriage, the choice to have kids or not or adopt. to stay home or work. the same applies to a man. i dont know what the driving factor for a woman is which makes her want to have a child. is it society or the ingrained motherhood factor in her? .... i have to wait to find out. but having the choice to want to be in a position where you will have babies, tend to them, have a nanny, work etc etc does not lead to inequality in my opinion.

sure you can a another women bear your child and feed him, in rich developped societies but i allways think about the average citizen of the world, not the silver spoon born like us! what are the perspectives for average females in this world? contraception is hard and risky for health, breastfeeding is mandatory cause other milk can be polluted, corrupted; jobs are paid far less than for men..so what is the result of getting maried and having children for the average female world citizen? having children:D....rest are inconveniences...that most men will not bear, hence i think that true feminist are those who do not marry and have children. i'm not saying i like or not.

and look at your signature! building by destroying themselves is exactly what all females are doing when they get pregnant! in our countries more females die of delivering children than of AIDS!