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aww, that sucks! i'm sorry :(.
i think he wanted things to move quicker....or he was looking for that something to "check off his list" that he didn't get in the months time. but don't worry- i know us girls overanalyze everything to death....but iA you'll meet someone perfect for you!
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u should have asked him what he meant by "reserved". some people have completely different views about this
id think, a month was more than enough to open up to someone... for me, if someone doesnt open up in 2-3 meetings, i find it odd.. and this goes for any type of relationship.
Just move on. Its just a learning curve...
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Hahaha you guys are sooo amusing!
lol Zobia yes thinking about it now, I should have said that! (If I do it now it'll seem like I'm still trying to prolong the convo...so its a no no!) (PS: Jab we Met is sooo funny)
Hmmm...PCG that isn't the impression I got!
lol @ Sara's comment!
Perhaps nabz, although there are so many 'what ifs' I'll never know the real reason!
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I never met up with the man! He said it wasn't necessary if everything else 'clicked' so I wouldn't describe the convos as 'meetings'
Yes I guess everyone's meaning of 'reserved' is different...maybe he was expecting me to break into song down the phone lol
Am trying very hard to concentrate on other things like work, friends, family etc but like I said initially...I wasn't expecting it, so its difficult blah blah blah blah blah
Will keep all the advice in mind though !
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^ i meant on the phone too..
i started speaking to my hubz over the phone until we decided to meet up and confirm the feelings 
but then again, i used to be a very open person… not so much now.
Im not sure how much he wanted u to open up.. or what excactly he wanted u to spill for him to get the click… maybe discuss some kinda desires? i dunno… he should have clarified that..
how long ago did u guys stop speaking? who knows… if he did really like u.. he may contact u again… who knows. His loss really. U seem like a sweet person.
Go out, have fun… go meet friends and enjoy life.
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That's the thing! I'm not sure what he wanted, everything we talked about we agreed upon. Now I think about it I should have demanded some explanation and I think the explanation he gave isn't enough for me which is why I keep thinking about it.
Aww thanks sweetie!
Ok, I must stop replying to every single message now otherwise I'll talk about it non-stop!
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thing is... agreeing on everything is fine. But opening up about ur life and urself is different :)
Inshallah u'll find the right person, and when u do, u will definately open up without even knowing it