your partners attitude...

When you first meet the people their attitude is very nicee..but once you really get to knwo them throughout the relationship you find out what triggers their anger etc..

Does your gf/bf/wife/husband have attitude problem? Does he/she get mad easily over little things? How do you deal with it? Should one get married to a girl if she has a attitude/anger problem?

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I cannot tolerate anger from any man! If I (god forbid) get into a relationship with any guy who has attitude prob..I will leave instantly! It a HUGE turn-off for me! I dont' lose my temper that easily unless someone really pushes my buttons...so I expect the same from the significant other.

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Well yes, people do change Furqan, sometimes because acting nice is an act in the first place, sometimes because their expectations aren't being met, It is true of Both men and women.

The relationship game has no set principles. Some win, some loose, and its not necessarily the best who always win.

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pushes EMM’s buttons layd:…
BEEP BEEP… :eek:
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POSSIBLE ALTERNATIVES: HOPELESS / HELPLESS :clown:

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lol saieen its not that easy as I mentioned b4 :stuck_out_tongue:

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why is that i always get the NOT SO EASY girls? :mad: kithay mar gayen hein sari assan kakian? :aj:

i can’t show/have attitude…bcoz once i tried to show attitute and the answer i got in return was naak poonjhni aandi naye te chala aai nakhray vikhan :sara: :teary2:

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Tau naak poonch kai naakhray dikhanay thai na bhai.

Plus how many girls are you after anyway? Saeein bano, khawar naheen.

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all except u :blush: :clown:

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^lol. I feel left out now.

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I cant tolerate anger either.. it makes me run away from people. So i don't think i can ever handle anger.

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So how do you define a "problem"?
Because everyone has their good days and bad days.

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I"ve had really bad days.. ive gotten so mad that i feel my blood boiling. but i jsut end up crying and spitting out my feelins online (in journal) :bummer: when someone does someting to upset me and make me mad, I can’t bring myself to SAY anything, rather u can c it on my face.. i just try not to talk when i’m angry, coz i know ill end up saying somethign i regret.. :hinna:

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lol yea when I am unable to take my anger out...I end up crying on my own :(

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I dont like girls who get angry soo fast that their blood boils eveyrtime they drive behind a chinese driver or throughout daily problems. I would prefer a girl who is "STRONG" who won't let little daily life problems get to her.
I don't have any respect for girls who cry about little little things around their house..."oh she said that, he said that, my father did this, this B*tch at my work did this...and i am hurt and blah blahhhh"

and i know not all girls are like that..but still i got no attraction towards girls like who aren't strong with emotions cuz this life we live is not like some heaven or a joke..we encounter alot of problems daily and we see things which doesn't make us happy, but all we can do is try to make the most out of it and be happy :)

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Nobody likes to live with someone who flips in an instant. People who have anger management problem are normally avoided by others. Everyone can show anger, but the one who controls it earns more respect.

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Ive known ppl who’ve said the worst things in anger, and u just cant’ take those words back.. they’re heartbreaking and sad.. :hinna: :frowning:

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i know my anger is a problem.. but inshallah i'l control it..
but in a partner, i'd like sum1 who shares, and if sum1 cant share their problems or their day to day life even then it leaves the other person alone and cut off.

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I hear ya all the way down here buddy! Y dont we gather all "these" kind a girls and ship them to one island for good one yr and ull see the difference once they come back :D

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I can't handle it when people flip out for no reason - it's a sign of weakness and insecurity.

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including you right ? :stuck_out_tongue: