Your Ideal Rishta Checklist...

ZareenKhan · July 22, 2011, 10:22am

AGE, EDUCATION, FAMILY BACKGROUND, FAMILY SIZE, FINANCIAL STATUS, HEIGHT, ETC ETC.

We all know we have to let go of many of our ideals and at times even settle for something we don’t find even close to our ideals. But what if you were given a genie and it was to literally provide you with your ideal match, what would you ask for?

PinkOrchids · July 22, 2011, 10:39am

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5ft 10, Around my age, Athletic built, Brown eyes (medium/light brown eyes), spikey hair (spiked up, or anything funky), nice nose - not too long, not too short. I don’t like long noses. Mine is Peenah LOL. (Might by why!), Nice lips have be full (not majorly, but not like lines for where lips are meant to be), Dimples would be a bonus but not necessity. Educated to Bachelors level. Ideally same caste as me so parents don’t go mad. Financial status - happy in what he has and is not a pauper but not super rich either. Family size +3 siblings is ok. No more. LOL. Non-arrogant, non-liar, non-cheater oh and non-crazy.

Ahh I like playing make believe…goes to make him on sims 3 LOL

CM · July 22, 2011, 10:51am

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36.28.34.

KayZ · July 22, 2011, 11:09am

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i think i know the guy you are looking for, have seen him acting in a few movies

PinkOrchids · July 22, 2011, 11:10am

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Marmalade · July 22, 2011, 11:36am

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ideally

at least 5'7, educated, attractive (doesn't have to be stunningly handsome but should be average looking...and not fat...oh and I love glasses <3), well-off/financially stable, well-read, articulate, similar values, kind, not manipulative, not overly controlling, should be older than me but not by more than 6/7 years

KayZ · July 22, 2011, 11:44am

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5'7", isnt it too short ?

KiteRunner · July 22, 2011, 12:07pm

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What Marmalade said, maybe a tiny bit taller but hey ho.

STA · July 22, 2011, 1:58pm

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I think 5'7 is good height.

ZareenKhan · July 22, 2011, 1:59pm

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I thought i was reading somebodys diary cute stuff! lol. Allah kare k aapki khawaish puri ho, Aameen.

Few points i really found funny in a cute way…i.e the nose? hehe cuz i have a thing for certain noses too but i thought it was only me but yah i like long noses though i wudnt add that to my checklist otherwise there will be no end to it haha. And yah true about the lips too, really dislike the really thin ones hehe.

Are you prospect guy looking for a girl to marry or someone from a modelling agency wanting a model? :). Though, i can understand wanting a well kept girl/guy but wat’s in the numbers? This might be a good measurement for a certain height/built and not necessairly for another.

Lol. Haiiiiiiiii Movies wale bhi insaan hi hote hain

I like your list makes sense, atleast most of it does! I agree a guy should be aleast 5’7" for a girl who is no less than 5’2"-3".

p.s my list coming up

stoppit · July 22, 2011, 2:00pm

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boobs bigger than hips look weird. kthx.

hareem01 · July 22, 2011, 2:08pm

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LOL....he got you thinking/imagining too.

ZareenKhan · July 22, 2011, 2:15pm

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Basically there is no end to our wants but logically we can't get it all so we can only hope and work towards getting most of the main things in our partners.

For me those main things are that;

1) He belongs to a nice, shareef family.

2) Well Educated and m quite particular about the institutes one studies from though at times they dont guarantee much but still they do matter 98% of the time.

3) Financially should be stable and ambitious at the same time. A business background is much prefered for a better understand and adjustment.

4) Age wise 3-4 years difference is ideal but anything more than 6-7 years is putting off.

5) Ideally caste should be same but i think overall if the family is warm and nice, it can pass.

6) I really dig a nice sense of humor and an intellectual mind though i strongly feel i can't put this on my checklist if i really want to marry lols. So just giving it a deserved mention.

7) The guy should be attractive to me, i don't care if rest things he's not good enough as long as i think he's fine. And overall insaan lage as at times you can be fine looking according to features and all but yet have this obnoxious look to yourself which really puts it off.

And why do i feel yeh sab bhi is too much to ask considering jo aaj kal halat chal rahey hain :p lols.

STA · July 22, 2011, 2:24pm

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ZK: you should also make duwa for good naseeb.

ZareenKhan · July 22, 2011, 2:26pm

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Aww. thank-you! :). I def should, this is a scary business and only Allah can help get thru it.

webmister · July 22, 2011, 3:25pm

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ZareenKhan:

Basically there is no end to our wants but logically we can't get it all so we can only hope and work towards getting most of the main things in our partners.

For me those main things are that;

1) He belongs to a nice, shareef family.

2) Well Educated and m quite particular about the institutes one studies from though at times they dont guarantee much but still they do matter 98% of the time.

3) Financially should be stable and ambitious at the same time. A business background is much prefered for a better understand and adjustment.

4) Age wise 3-4 years difference is ideal but anything more than 6-7 years is putting off.

5) Ideally caste should be same but i think overall if the family is warm and nice, it can pass.

6) I really dig a nice sense of humor and an intellectual mind though i strongly feel i can't put this on my checklist if i really want to marry lols. So just giving it a deserved mention.

7) The guy should be attractive to me, i don't care if rest things he's not good enough as long as i think he's fine. And overall insaan lage as at times you can be fine looking according to features and all but yet have this obnoxious look to yourself which really puts it off.

And why do i feel yeh sab bhi is too much to ask considering jo aaj kal halat chal rahey hain :p lols.

I think I have seen this list a million times on this forum. Next time add something new :)

ZareenKhan · July 22, 2011, 3:28pm

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This aint a competition of creativity! I think normal people have similiar wants hence the similiarities.

ShahreyarKhan · July 22, 2011, 3:29pm

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LOL @ family size

Girly_Man · July 22, 2011, 3:29pm

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Summer was SO goood!

Basically there is no end to our wants but logically we can’t get it all so we can only hope and work towards getting most of the main things in our partners.

For me those main things are that;

He belongs to a nice, shareef family.

Well Educated and m quite particular about the institutes one studies from though at times they dont guarantee much but still they do matter 98% of the time.

Financially should be stable and ambitious at the same time. A business background is much prefered for a better understand and adjustment.

Age wise 3-4 years difference is ideal but anything more than 6-7 years is putting off.

Ideally caste should be same but i think overall if the family is warm and nice, it can pass.

I really dig a nice sense of humor and an intellectual mind though i strongly feel i can’t put this on my checklist if i really want to marry lols. So just giving it a deserved mention.

The guy should be attractive to me, i don’t care if rest things he’s not good enough as long as i think he’s fine. And overall insaan lage as at times you can be fine looking according to features and all but yet have this obnoxious look to yourself which really puts it off.

And why do i feel yeh sab bhi is too much to ask considering jo aaj kal halat chal rahey hain lols.

ZareenKhan · July 22, 2011, 3:34pm

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Believe me, it does matter ALOT to some families.