Re: Your Husband's Past
Mr A.Tray
re the "till women keep accepting" perhaps they live in the real world...
anyway...
Pak culture...whatever that means IS changing
all over the world...the pockets of people who travelled abroad and created little "bubbles" of pakistan ...facsimilies of the homelife they left behind .... are evolving, the second and third generations are adopting certain traits from teh host western culture and at the moment it is fairly acceptable for a young man to have a girlfriend and to sleep with her too
I believe that the lifestyle will eventually( many years hence) get to paks too
Its is also (amongst the young...by young i mean mid twenties etc.) now fairly acceptable for pak girls to have boyfriends and hormones being hormones coupled with the romantic idea that "one day" thay shall be married they MAY take the relationship to a further level
so you have a girl who is not a virgin
and then she goes and breaks up with boy friend for some (perhaps silly) reason and goes off with his friend or someone else...so she is half way to the "bad lady" stage
what im trying to say... amongst all this waffling is that in a few years it may be that the children of the guppistanies here will be marrying people who have had lots (or rather more than one) sexual partners...
At the moment there is more of a stigma with women and their pasts ... and less so with a man
Im suggesting that soon it wont be too much of an issue for either
and Im quite certain with all this belief in nonsense like Love ..(Eurrghh)
there are pakistanis who will accept a lady of ill repute
I mean if a man marries a black or White lady who has had more than one partner will people look down upon her..?
I havent seen it happen...
there are far more important things to consider whether someone repents their past (perceived) misdemeaners