who decided that ?
If anything, when a woman marries a man when he has nothing it shows that she genuinely cares for him and loves him for who he is rather then how much money he makes/what car he drives/how big his house is. But that is rare as hell, to find a sincere woman.
Women know they can manipulate men, as most men are that weak and desperate that they are willing to pay there way through a relationship/marriage just to enjoy the sexual/physical side. Truthfully then it’s nothing more then legal prostitution.