Your humble Opinion
^ that's true too X2!
And PCG you can't really believe that somebody is only just paying for his haircuts. That seens silly to me. That's all that was given in the thread. I believe she takes on most of the role for sure but it really is about little or big sacrifices. She has savings and so does he. This doesn't seem like a paycheck to paycheck situation so I am having a hard time with this girls decision to bring someone over through the immigration process and then be so fed up with being responsible for him. I don't disagree with her not wanting to pay for his exams, he clearly failed the first time but I think that they should still compromise on splitting it. Something? how do you give up on your husband, thats the part Im having a hard time with especially when money doesn't seem to be an issue. I just can't take a third persons biased word for it by saying "he controls her money and is not nice." That may very well be the case but we don't know. Op clearly doesn't have a good impression of this guy and I am just firm on never only taking one side of the story. Things seem off here and money doesn't seem to be an issue at all here. It's ironic, usually that's what newly weds suffer from, no money problems. But you cant really ask at this point if whether or not she should be in this marriage because she is in the marriage and by the looks of it knew she would be supporting him long before she married him. When you do immigration work, you prove your financial status and prove you can support the person your bringing over. They dont just grant immigration that easily, you go through the process and even after for the first three years are required to show your financial abilities. That's the only reason this irks me, because she knew and did take on this role. Maybe she didn't expect him to fail and I don't blame her for that, but I mean they are now married and in this together right? Unless she doesn't to be married anymore, that may be the issue.