Your humble Opinion

[cpa2011]

Re: Your humble Opinion

@PyariCgudia

So any groom coming from Pakistan - in that marriage there is an implicit understanding that the girl will pay for everything ?

Huh? Is that a blanket statement for any groom from Pakistan. Not only was I born on the wrong continent, I was apparently born the wrong gender.

Regardless of where the guy comes from, he provides. If he is still in his education, he either should have the sense to wait and take a wife once he is financially ready or he take a wife and understand his family will be helping him support the couple until his exams are done.

Any scenario where the girl agrees to fully financially support a guy - huge mistake. And even if she does plain and simple, this guy has extra cash he can dip into. “Getting used to be paid for” is no excuse, not when he has 10K sitting there.

Can’t believe the kind of excuses we are now making to create a new class of doormats.

OK, so just fyi, anybody coming from pakistan, will not be able to support you. you will support him. The question is if it will be for how long.

case inpoint, a doctor in pak probably makes $1000 permonth? Depending where u live, that wont even cover the rent. Anyone goes to a new country is slow in everysence. Imagen if you moved from texas to NY. Don’t you think it would take you a month or two to get adjusted?

So now take someone from PAKISTAN, and bring them here, your looking at about a 6 month period of adjustment.

Anyway my point is you will have to support him. Just don’t be niaeve and say im gonna take him on vacations and buy him high end clothing. do the minimum so he thinks that he has to find work as well. if you show like hey i have tons of money to pay for everything. They guy is gonna try to save his money, remember $500 here is not as much as $500 there. Its like a little kid, if you spoil it, its gonna be bad. If you treat it the way you want it to act from the beginning, your fine.