Re: Your help needed
honestly plusha, i m sorry, i m a lil pissed. u keep sayin change is possible in a person and all. majority of us here are experienced, married or in relationship so we r sayin all this as per our experience. u r still young and naive and dun understand the complexities of relationships. i dun blame u. insaan moo ke bal ghirta hia phir hi seekhta hia. i say this for myself too.
90 percent of the men dun and will never change after marriage. u can dream abt that sweetie. one of the men here himself admitted that its becus of their ego... so u have ppl here who themselves are speakin up and sayin hey, its difficult to change us.
trust me, if u get married to this guy and later remember our advises u will cry really badly and thaz wat we all dun want for u. thaz y it appears we dun want u to b happy and all, when infact everyone is tryin to save u from jumping in a "kuwaa". do read the thread on domestic abuse on GS also.