Re: Your ethnic background
Dr. Henry Walter Bellow, British ethnographer writing in 19th Century, states that Rajputs and Pashtuns have a common origin. This view is also partially shared by Olaf Careo. For example Bellow identifies Saraban, the mythical ancestor of some famous Pashtun tribes e.g. Yousafzai, Abdalis, etc., as Rajput Surajbansi meaning Children of the Sun or the Solar Race of Rajputs. Similarly he considers Sharkbun and Karshbun, the two sons of Saraban, as Surajan and Krishan respectively, both names of Rajput tribes. He proceeds on to compile a long list of related Rajput and Pashtun tribal names. For example, he identifies the following Pashtun tribes with the given Rajput tribal names.
Jafar (i.e. Jaffar Khel) with "Jipra" or "Pra" Rajput
Jallu (i.e. Jallu Khel) with "Jalliya" Rajput
Madda (i.e. Madda Khel) with "Madda" Rajput
Osi (i.e. Osi Khel) with "Oswal" Rajput
Urya (i.e. Urya Khel) with "Harya" Rajput
Shamaki (i.e. Shamaki Khel) with "Shamaki" Rajput
Maruf (i.e. Maruf Khel) with "Mir-Rup" Rajput
Yahya (i.e. Yahya zai) with "Johya" Rajput
Sangar (i.e. Sangar Khel) with "Sengarh" Rajput
(For the rest see Bellow's "An Ethnography of Afghanistan" or Brigadier Retired Harun-u-Rashid's "History of the Pathans-Volume 2 Sarabani Pathans").
Generally accepted view about Rajput is, they are not an ancient people but are descendent of the hordes from Central Asia that invaded Hindustan in the middle of the first millinuim A.D. Thus Rajputs can be considered the modern representatives of the Sythians, Kushans, and Ephtalites (White Huns) that arrived south of Hindukush from 1st Century A.D. to 6th Century A.D. Similarly, about Pashtuns, Yuri V. Gankovsky writes:
"In my opinion, when the Ephtalite (White Huns) tribal alliance disintegrated in the middle of first millinuim A.D. then a confederation of the East Iranian tribes was formed that became the initial substratum of Pashtun ethnicity. Some other tribes of the same alliance, to the north of Hindukush, laid the ethnic foundation of modern Central Asian nations, in particular, Uzbaks and Turkmans. An evidence of this can be found in the ethnonyms of these nations. Among Turkamans and Uzbaks, there is an ethno-name "Abdal" found that is traced to Ephtalites. In the south of Hindukush, a section of Ephtalite tribal alliance suffered a decline in power as military muscle of the rulers and was pushed towards Suleman mountains where population was sparse and pastures and water-sources limited. There they participated in another tribal alliance. This actually laid down the foundation for Pashtun ethnicity."
Gonkovsky further writes:
"The evidence of Ephtalites participation in Pashtun-ethnic formation is that the name of one of the largest Pashtun tribal confederacy is "Abdali" (called Durrani now), which is related to "Abdal" the ethnic appellation for Ephtalites. Till the beginning of 19th Century, the Kafir of Hindukush (Nuristanis) called Pashtuns as Abdals. It is also possible that Kushan and Tokharian tribes might have contributed to Pashtun ethnic composition. In this connection, the European linguist George Morgensteirne has written that Urnar(Barkis) know Pashtuns by the ethnic name of Kash or Kas".
Although, Pashtuns have a mixed ethnicity, having amalgamted Iranian tribes like Parachi and Baraki (Barkis) and Turks e.g. Khalaj (modern Ghiljis/Khiljis) and Turklanis, they have Ephtalites as a substantial portion of their ethnic composition. So a link between Pashtuns and Rajputs is highly likely as also supported by similarity of values and martial traditions.