Your Baby and his/her Thunder

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Re: Your Baby and his/her Thunder

@kakee

oh demi hugssss

one of my aunts (grand mothers sisters daughter) would get jealous of us because she had three kids and my mom only had two but we were very pampered I think it was because we were a newer addition to the family?
I think jealousy is normal but don’t let other people see it because they will think low of you. As much as I love you demi<3 its something that you have to ignore and you know since her baby is going to be coming one month earlier they’ll be all over your baby after they get used to the other one!

You’ll always be the one to think your children are the most intelligent, kind, generous and beautiful little horrors Allah blessed you with so don’t worry even if your SILs kid gets more attention it’ll be brief because your baby will come and your good looks combined with your stunner husband… I just know you’ll have such a cutey pie for a kid.

Besides you have khalas from all over the world who will praise your kid to death

Aww Kakee, thanks. I don’t really care about them being all over this or that, as it is you know how focused I am on my husband and husband only truly. But it annoys the life out of me that this was my baby’s time, I am not looking for reflected glory. I have had a horrendous pregnancy and no help at all on any account BUT it annoys me that they’ll pamper her. And it annoys me that somehow, conveniently, she makes sure to try to one up me somehow or the other in everything in petty ways. The sheer pettiness annoys me. Don’t insult my intelligence by telling me you didn’t know you were nearly five months pregnant!
As for the Khalas around the world, WORD

@sahr

Aww my baby:hugs: I’m not a bigger person myself..but the pregnancy hormones sure change you completely. I know it’s difficult living alone while you are pregnant but trust me it’s better than living in a joint family just to be pampered by your inlaws:/ even if she is being pampered right now,** your kid would have his own value** and he would be loved by both the sides, trust me.. Because this is their son’s first child!!

That is all this is about. Kid DESERVES attention from both sides of fam bam. My love can more than make up for lack of the world’s love even, I would love my child that much and I do. BUT, my kid deserves EVERYTHING. I’m sure mothers can understand my feelings.

@Sweetmoi

TO OP:

You’ve the right to be upset and surely I think there is more to it than the post indicates, therefor be mad, hurt, whatever for those 2 mins and then throw it all out. **No need to let such negativity grow inside you. It will only make it worse for you. **

and plus, dont expect people to be all “awww” about your baby. Your baby is special to you and your husband. For everyone else he is just another kid on the block. I hope you get my point, now cheer up

totally vented it out. not letting anyone see it. infact id encourage them to treat her well

@sarad

Whats so gross about that ??
I got pregnant around 2 months after my sister. She was having her first child and I , my second. I did not tell about my pregnancy right away and waited until about end of 4th month. I did not pretend that I just came to know about it but I just did not tell right away.

To the OP: For whatever reason I felt the same. i.e. my sister is having her first child and there I am, pregnant at the same time !! She should get all the attention etc but we lived far apart and she got attention from her husband and in-laws and it was not like I got pregnant intentionally to steal her thunder.