Your appearance and desi culture

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Re: Your appearance and desi culture

@hareem01

What people do and say behind my back should not be any of my concern.

Thing is people should embrace their “faults” in order to be a confident person, and that is easier to do when you are outside the desi society. You can be praised for being petite, curvy and olive skinned instead of being criticized for being short, fat, dark and ugly.

Exactly! We should embrace our faults and not hide behind feel-good labels. A truly confident person knows their weaknesses and accepts them.

@hareem01

Yeah, but point is it’s easier for people in West who don’t have to deal with dozens of aunties and uncles and go through a typical rishta process etc.

There’s always a Rishta Process; be it in the West or the East.

What? You think Non-Desis don’t judge their potential partners?!