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don’t like our moms, do you?

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lol thats just such a bizarre question to ask

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lol

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I wouldnt have a problem with anyone at all unless they mess with me. I believe in giving everyone a fair, clear chance to surprise me with their goodness :cool:.

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Well ain’t you a sweetheart, and a half

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So if your mom messes with you, will you have a problem with her too?

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Hell, yeah!!! But i understand i can throw tanturums at mom n she wl take it but not my mil :nono: and that is okie!!! u cnt really compare the two and u shudnt if u want a peaceful married life.

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yup

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Maybe if they weren't so terribly over-protective, bossy, cold, nit-picking, comparing-me-to-her-or-some-daughter, manipulative, and evil we'd love them.

Just randomly though, what do guys think of their MILs? A lot of my white married friends hate their MILs...like both the husband and wife hate each others mothers...but I wonder if that's the same case with South Asian men.

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:hmmm:

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Troll.

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I share way too many personal vignettes from my life here - so here’s another.

Met a guy who was pretty crazy about me (please, no jokes :vivo: ). I thought, hey maybe marriage is a possibility. His mother was something else.

Her son’s words: I was too good for him, and he was lucky to have me in his life. He committed to devoting himself to making me happy and not regretting choosing him. See, he had a past and I didn’t judge him for it or hold it against him.

His mom: I wasn’t good enough for her son, we were too different, I was too old, yada, yada, yada. Did I mention the fact that she said the language barrier meant I wouldn’t be able to understand her when she swore at me?

So yes, I couldn’t stand his mom and turned down his proposal despite him telling me he’d make it work.

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Wow you are cold. PLEASE don't do this ever again. If someone's mom is an important factor, please research on it before hand before getting emotionally involved.

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motherss D:
I hope I never meet anybody like that it would make me burst out laughing.

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That is so unlike you, and I bet you're aware it is.

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where did she say that she was 'emotionally' involved?

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I am assuming she was or at least led the guy on. Her words

and the fact she was considering the proposal. Unless she considers random proposals I am inclined to believe she was interested in him too

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Why can't a woman reject a guy because of his mother? It is emotionally draining knowing that your partners mother hates you and would probably do anything to make you look bad.

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By all means please do, but make sure you do your research on his mom before he professes that he is crazy for you. And in case he mentions that he will do whatever it takes to make it work, please do have some faith in him. Contrary to what you girls may think, guys have feelings too and you are marrying the guy, not his mom.

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Sehrysh is going to hit you on the head for this :D

I did not see all this in her post that you said, but maybe. Let her come and reply

I agree. forget about liking the woman but the fact that mother of the guy does not even respect her own grown up sons' choices and so vocal about her displeasure shows that she is not the right person to associate yourself with for the rest of your life.