Re: you wana earn yourself or wana dependent on your spouse for money?
^that's not how I think of it. And that's not how my husband thinks of it. His income is OUR household income. When I work, that's our income also, not just mine. When I make food I don't say it's my food and ur at a weaker position cuz I made it.
A lot of women are stay at home moms, u really think they are in a "weaker" position?
In ur marriage thats what u may think may happen, that ur in some sort of weaker position because ur not out working but that's certainly not the case in my marriage.