When I was 16 one my mum's closest friends who hadn't seen me for years and years said 'Thank God you grew up pretty cos you were an ugly child, not to mention horrid'.
I said thanks and then cried cos I always thought I was a lush baby. Clearly not.
There was a girl in our group of friends in highschool...braces, chest hi trousers, overweight, short curly hair and a face full of pimples. Very low self esteem too...basically the loser u see in teen movies ...10 yrs down the lane.... Just got added by her on fb ..... And i didnt ecognise her AT ALL!!! She is HOT! Sim, trim, pimples re gine, hair are long and lush.... Its like she stepped out of a magazine! I think i may have salivated a bit too... Thats how hubba hubba she looked! And the fiance.... Yowzah! Dream couple u could say.That was one ugly duckling to swan transformation i'll never get around to fully understanding... But im happy for her.... Cuz back then and even now, she is a good person to be around :)
It's yet another backhanded compliment...and so is the one that Hareem posted in her thread. However, I think that Afshi's comment might even be seen as less offensive compared to the one Hareem poasted.....because people tend to be more concerned about how they currently look than how they looked in the past. But either way.....not the best wording for either of them.