Hi everyone you might find me weird but I really want all the wives to go in to their husband call records itemised billing and see who their call longest and everyday you never know they might be cheating on you.
As you can see from my previous post" husband chatting to another lady" I trusted my husband until he started hiding his phone and chatting in another room and when I manage to get hold of his call record from itemised billing I got shock of my life his been chatting to our female family friend for 2 years and when confronted him he says it was just innocent chats.
But why hide it from me?
I’m still with him because I have no evidence it was more than just friendly chat.
I also don’t believe a man and a women can be friends on phone for so long as 2 years.
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Hi everyone you might find me weird but I really want all the wives to go in to their husband call records itemised billing and see who their call longest and everyday you never know they might be cheating on you. As you can see from my previous post" husband chatting to another lady" I trusted my husband until he started hiding his phone and chatting in another room and when I manage to get hold of his call record from itemised billing I got shock of my life his been chatting to our female family friend for 2 years and when confronted him he says it was just innocent chats. But why hide it from me? I'm still with him because I have no evidence it was more than just friendly chat. I also don't believe a man and a women can be friends on phone for so long as 2 years.
You just gave every poor friendzoned guy some hope
You should check on your husbands call records
As if they won’t be doing it already? 
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If you have the need to constantly check his phone and records, then the marriage already is in a bit of trouble.
I don't need to go through my husband's calls or messages, because he just leaves his phone laying around in plain site, never stops me from using it or reading his messages. And I do the same, you need to build some open communication with your husband and you both need to work on your trust issues.
If you honestly believe that he's cheating on you, then confront him. He doesn't need to be on the phone chatting to female friends for 2 hours at a time if he has a wife at home who he can talk to. I hope he really is innocent but if it's bothering you so much, you need to find out. Get in touch with these girls yourself if they are family friends and let him know you don't like it. Or tell him to talk to them in front of you.
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Sick men.
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This is so lame. U are married, u have issues. Ur single, u still have issues. :( no hope.
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Hi everyone you might find me weird but I really want all the wives to go in to their husband call records itemised billing and see who their call longest and everyday you never know they might be cheating on you. As you can see from my previous post" husband chatting to another lady" I trusted my husband until he started hiding his phone and chatting in another room and when I manage to get hold of his call record from itemised billing I got shock of my life his been chatting to our female family friend for 2 years and when confronted him he says it was just innocent chats. But why hide it from me? I'm still with him because I have no evidence it was more than just friendly chat. I also don't believe a man and a women can be friends on phone for so long as 2 years.
why are you still with him, he has done it again and again and you still need evidence....
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I think if the phone is not hidden . it's all good
Secondly. Is there something wrong in chatting with your friends? Like normal decent chats?
I'm married and I talk to my friends. Just the way I did before I got married. I never hide them but my husband never bothered to read. I occasionally quote reference to chat if needed.
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I think if the phone is not hidden . it's all good
Secondly. Is there something wrong in chatting with your friends? Like normal decent chats? I'm married and I talk to my friends. Just the way I did before I got married.** I never hide them** but my husband never bothered to read. I occasionally quote reference to chat if needed.
The difference between u and OP is that you did not hide your chats. If these friends that you have frequent and lengthy chats with are female, then no it's not wrong. If they are male, yes I do believe that's weird. People allow themselves such openings and put their marriages at risk.
Anyhow, OP, you have a husband who keeps repeating the same mistakes and does a crummy job with covering his tracks. Actually it doesn't look he even tries to cover them, which makes your sleuthing convenient. But apart from his fidelity, it would also make me doubt his intelligence. And you maybe need to think about which women you should continue to keep as family friends.
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Do you still love or feel anything for him? I didn't really follow your other thread closely. Have you asked him why he keeps the call records in another room?
why are you still with him, he has done it again and again and you still need evidence....
I agree that this would be the most logical decision if he is cheating but if she gets a divorce she will have to deal with the issues of being a divorced desi woman and depending on if she has her family's support, if she has a job, if she has a place to live with her children. It's a huge decision.
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take his fone away from him when he is home...[fone is just a privilege]...treat him like a teenager! :p
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When one feels the need to hide their conversations , it means there is something in there that is wrong. Specially from a spouse's perspective.
In a perfectly healthy relationship , checking the other's phone or calls is not recommended coz that hurts the trust level . However if one is suspecting due to behavioral change or any other reason, I wouldnt blame the person for trying to do that. Because in many cases I have seen cheating partners dont open up so quick and resort to lying. However , communication is the first code of action. you must be ready to question the spouse to see if they have a valid explanation.
As a matter of fact, I too believe a man and a woman cannot just be friends. I have friends too , but I have very very defined lines of interaction and I always ensure my husband is aware of all of my friends and my interaction with them. And not only my husband , but my friends spouses also remain aware of the communications between us. This is what true and genuine friendship is . Where there is no room for one suspecting the other.
I do believe when a man or a woman start hiding stuff from their partners, then there is something wrong in intention or action.
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Moral: Always use a separate SIM and keep it away from home.
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He could be organising a surprise birthday party for you through your friends … 
perhaps?
Hi everyone you might find me weird but I really want all the wives to go in to their husband call records itemised billing and see who their call longest and everyday you never know they might be cheating on you..
I'm sorry this is happening to you and I know you're hurting, but the above statement....really? Not all men cheat and there are plenty of 100% faithful and honest husbands out there. It's not right to advise all wives/women to assume the worst always and be on the lookout for something wrong without just cause for them to do so.
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That's the reason i practice asceticism.
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Do you know how easy it is to get a cheap disposable prepaid phone?
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It works both ways. When your partner starts hiding their phone, the jigg is up. My parents got divorced. I've seen all the tell signs when someone is doing something they shouldn't be.
And I agree. Your husband has you at home. His wife. Anything he needs to talk about why doesn't he do that with you? Granted we all need some space from our other half but the simple fact he is taking this space away from you with another girl instead of a guy has some red flags.
It also depends how frequent these calls were and for how long. If it's an everyday thing, well..
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yes ladies, men do nothing but cheating. Esp if they are talking to someone in the middle of night :chai:
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For two years!!? 
Not all men are like that. Besides trust there seem to be other issues in this marriage.