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*Originally posted by CM: *
What the hell are you doing back? What are you and commie joined at the hip? If guys stare at hijabis, they are just animals. Who stares at hijabis? You cant see anything resembling a figure.....
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exams are over...am free...nothing to do...thought to see u ppl after a long time..dunno about commi..shes gonna kill me , am sure about it
anyway if u really wanna know who stares at hijabis then come to Pakistan...and yes i am serious :)
If she’s ugly I look her straight in the eyes and ask her what she wants but if she’s good looking I stop breathing, start blushing and go all clumsy…
A honest perspective from a honest guy:
Well, it is important to be the cordial with the "ugly" ones cuz: they might have some cute friends and one can tap into theirr contacts.Also a guy needs to have a dummy target for some practise.
I cant understand this, girls clamor over guys judging them o their looks. And these same girls turn back and do the same thing. Sheesh what hypocrisy!
khuda ka khauf nahi hai kuch logon ko......
Whether she is Hijabi or not. Young or Old. All of us guys look. How we look is determinded individually. Some look at the face, some specific part and others are a combination. It can be done in a group or sub consciously when you're alone. Some look discreetly while others do it blatantly.
Guys or girls will look and have looked. Its human nature. Its another topic to control your gaze.
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*Originally posted by CocoNut: *
Whether she is Hijabi or not. Young or Old. All of us guys look. How we look is determinded individually. Some look at the face, some specific part and others are a combination. It can be done in a group or sub consciously when you're alone. Some look discreetly while others do it blatantly.
Guys or girls will look and have looked. Its human nature. Its another topic to control your gaze.
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The reason I posted this is because I wanted people to note their patterns of behaviour. The fact that we sometimes are infact "biased" towards others based on things that we might otherwise consider superficial. This doesnt only happen when it comes to looking at people, its in other areas of our lives as well. One may not be in this area, but may be in another.
I think conditioning plays a role in this as well, and also a bit of human nature.
Oh, and I agree with Mindless and Coco. Hijabis get stared at as well. I've always said, the difference is not in how men think of hijabis, its in how they treat them when interacting.
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*Originally posted by CM: *
What the hell are you doing back? What are you and commie joined at the hip? If guys stare at hijabis, they are just animals. Who stares at hijabis? You cant see anything resembling a figure.....
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I remember once I was walking through Hyde Park in London with a group of friends, and one of them started checking out a hijabi. I had to hit him round the head for that....
Is it okay to stare at some girls, but inappropriate to stare at hijabis? Is it more acceptable to stare at other girls? Why (not)?
smile Will post another topic for my other questions.
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*Originally posted by mAd_ScIeNtIsT: *
I remember once I was walking through Hyde Park in London with a group of friends, and one of them started checking out a hijabi. I had to hit him round the head for that....
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LMAO! You still remember that? Well you and i both know she had a fine ass. Next time i will stay away from you when i make such comments.
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LMAO! You still remember that? Well you and i both know she had a fine ass. Next time i will stay away from you when i make such comments.
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I didn't check her out at all (nor did I check out any of the other ladies in the park). The moment I saw you mentally undressing a hijabi, I had to whack the thought out of your head.
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*Originally posted by mAd_ScIeNtIsT: *
I didn't check her out at all (nor did I check out any of the other ladies in the park). The moment I saw you mentally undressing a hijabi, I had to whack the thought out of your head.
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How come you noticed that i was mentally undressing her if you didnt check her out? Plus you did check her out. You and i both know it....