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i feel uncomfortable in both situations.
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same here :p
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*Originally posted by irem: *
I dont think so. Girls just know these things and trust me they can tell :p
All you guys who think you can 'chek a girl out' without her knowing...you need to wake up :p Girls are smarter than you think.
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Female intitution may work, but it aint all encompassing. Tired, tested and even observed. Girls dont always know. Checking out a girl doesnt mean vulgar staring. How can you tell if someone looks at you through a reflection in a mirror, or passes from behind you and checks you out? Can you tell on those two occasions?
wanted to edit that..hope thats ok with u
So it gives you an ego boost? I thought so. So the opposite must happen. One statement was (paraphrased) what did i do to attract these idiots. The subject here is the girl, so that sort of attention is not invited, because the guy is ugly and that must be in some case a fault of the girl. I hope this rambling makes sense.
Depends on the kind of look? Seriously girls. Guys dont have their mouth open with drool spilling out when they check out girls. There are many more subtle ways. Not that i am gonna give away trade secrets. But only idiots stare at you directly.
This question is to the guys as well, when girls look at them. Thanks. smile
i don’t think i feel bad about myself if an unattractive guy is looking my way. it just annoys me.
you can tell us. :halo:
anyway, it really is the more overt stuff that bothers me more, as if they’re trying to prove/achieve something by showing you (or others) that they are checking you out.
and they do drool 
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Female duplicity at its best.
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Right on CM.
Wht difference does it make if a "not so cute" guy checks u out compared to a cute guy? Both of them are committing the deed and probably even have the same intentions.If you're beautiful all types of guys are going to check u out,live with it.Get a hijaab if u don't want to be checked out by the "not so cute guys".
ugly guys? u know i feel the same when both unattractive and attractive guys do that, i start blushing and try to get out of the place ASAP - i know im such a coward 
um yeah and there was this time i actually RAN out of the place, it happened abt 2 months back, this wierd black guy kept staring at me, i couldnt understand he was doing it so blatantly and then he made this gesture 
YACK thats when i tottally skedaddled
he actually had the nerve to follow me all the way around !! and the worst thing was he looked like a total drug addict what he was doing in such a place i have no idea
(just hope i never see him EVER again- i didnt even tell my friends it was so embarrassing they couldnt understand my moodswings 
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Then again it depends on the type of stare…if it’s the “I want to eat u up” look then it disgusts me..if it’s a “ohh that ladys lookin nice and wow she has nice hair” look then I woudl be obliged to smile back…but most of all I like those bashful looks…where both the starer and I have a blushful moment 
you know what – now i’m wondering it it’s the type of look that makes the guy noticeably unattractive. maybe the more overt looks are particularly disgusting to me, and make even otherwise attractive guys seem unattractive.
maybe i’m not so duplicitous after all :halo:
Okay, do not use my brutal, ugly-as-sin honesty against me. ;) These are the thoughts that cross my mind - not the words that would ever come out of my mouth.....
I thought this post was about the kind of sweet looks that happen occasionally - not the kind of looks that scare people half to death!hehe No matter how handsome some guy was on the outside, if he is staring at me like I am his next "victim" then he can shove off.
But talking equality here - sweet glances from an attractive man makes me feel attractive. I can't help it!
Sweet glances from an unattractive man, though - I may smile politely before walking away, but in my mind I am thinking "Oh, no! Am I unattractive as well?"
I completely realize how shallow and thoughtless this sounds. I would never make another person feel badly on purpose - but those are simply brief and honest thoughts during those moments.
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I thought this post was about the kind of sweet looks that happen occasionally - not the kind of looks that scare people half to death!hehe
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Yes, this is precisely what this post is about. The "sweet looks" that you mention. smile
bunch of hypocrits 
I don't understand why sweet looks from unattractive guys make girls feel worse about themselves. I don't recall feeling that way.
Can anyone explain?
Yeah im like that as well
and that too.
In fact jus today I was at the newsagents and these two guys were in the post office queue one was a young one and the other one looked like his dad or older brother. They stared at me so openly I was so embarrassed, I quickly turned my back and started choosing sweets. When i turned back around again, they were still there both plain as day staring like a couple of paindus who had just got off the plane. I quickly paid for my sweets and hurried out? The young one was actually quite handsome and the other one had a beard. I was thinking what a perve about the older one but at the other one i was just a bit annoyed, and flattered at the same time.
And my hubby was waiting for me in the car as well!! 
I very much appreciate the honesty and hope more of you will post. Will comment later. Why arent guys sharing their views here??
I've noticed that guys stare the most when they're with their "buddies".
Well to your question, when I realize a guy is staring at me I just look away and walk outa that place. I don't really care if the guy is good or bad looking once I find out that he is staring at me. I just feel disrespected!
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Well to your question, when I realize a guy is staring at me I just look away and walk outa that place. I don't really care if the guy is good or bad looking once I find out that he is staring at me. I just feel disrespected!
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same here ...
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Right on CM.
Wht difference does it make if a "not so cute" guy checks u out compared to a cute guy? Both of them are committing the deed and probably even have the same intentions.If you're beautiful all types of guys are going to check u out,live with it.Get a hijaab if u don't want to be checked out by the "not so cute guys".
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Even in Hijab guys DO stare!! and thats really really disgusting!
What the hell are you doing back? What are you and commie joined at the hip? If guys stare at hijabis, they are just animals. Who stares at hijabis? You cant see anything resembling a figure.....
^^ depends on what you mean by "hijab." And besides, nothing is more erotic than what our minds conjure up.