Re: You Jew...
Lajawab has raised a valid point. What's so offensive about being identified with a certain country or religion? Does it strike up that much insecurity? Would it have been that much of a big deal if it had been an African American couple? Why the discrimination? Did the blacks have it any easier than the Jews?
If you're really that concerned about being "found out" then maybe you should ditch the skull cap, dye your hair blonde and shave that beard. It's all about intention, it's not as if the waitress had cracked a Jew joke or something. She was just doing her job, it was totally harmless.