Re: You Hate Your Friend
First of all, cool down people :)
Secondly, it doesn't matter how respectable the girl is or what her intentions are, 'most' guys will always talk trash about her if she's seen in male company (no matter how innocent)..... ALWAYS. It doesn't matter if she's a farishtaa larki, they will always say stupid things.... its desi men's mentality and all girls should know that by now. That guy who you think is your best friend might even respect you secretly, but in front of others he will also trash talk and throw around gossip with weird connotations.... its a guy thing and there's nothing we women can do about it.
So, if you care about people saying trashy things behind your back, don't hang around with guys.... if you don't care, then to hell with them.... have as many friends as you like and hang around with them. Just my two cents :)