So what would you do If you found out your husband/ fiancee/ boyfreind was into kiddie po-n. Please notice that I am not talking about normal porn( nor do I want any silly fights/comments in here.
As for me I am sure as to what I would do and this is one of the very few things in my life that i am sure about. I will leave him. Straightaway. There isn’t and there can never be an excuse for sumthing as sick as this. Never. Try n imagine ( just imagine, i know not a very nice thought )urself in a real life situation and then tell me.
i would try to get him off it, if hes my fiance. If i am married to him i will do the same and keep on trying. I will try to compromise and try to make our marriage work and separation/divorce would be the last step that i would take but Inshallah i wouldn't let the situation get that far
^MM, in any other case i wil try and make the marriage work,
other scenarios include
:drinking problem
: extra marital affair etc etc.
But this is one thing that just can't be compromised on. Think hard and you wuld know why. Anyone who has children and loves them will agree. I know its not easy to get out of a marriage in our culture, but still somethings in life are worth sacrificing a lot for.
mahru i meant that i would compromise ( as in stay in the marriage and help him, coz if we have kids i dont want them growing up without a dad. But i m sure when a guy has kids he will do anthing to c a smile on their faces) with the situation and try to help him get rid of his sicko prob.
Phatbalongri and MM, I don't have kids but I can't stand the idea of anyone looking at someone's kids from 'that point of view' , let alone my own. How could you justify it.
Its not sick , its criminal behaviour, againts vulnerable people who cannot defend themselves.
I said I am not talking about normal porn, this is not a religious discussion, rather more centred around ethics, what would you do in such a situation?
MW: i would be disgusted by him too, but marriage is a big thing and i wouldnt end it just like that. I would do everything that i could do to get rid of his sicko habbit .
^and what if the law comes calling. Would you still defend him?
just ebcause of stupid relatives who would regard a divorce/separation as your personal failure no matter what the circumstances, and because they can never let go of a chance to share spicy stories and because their own daughters are in good marraiges and you would always be looked down upon?
Don't you think I have the same concerns? I belong to a very very conservative family. But like I said somethings in life are worth taking a stand for.
