Its not sick , its criminal behaviour, againts vulnerable people who cannot defend themselves.
exactly and criminals needs to be reported to the police, so that they can have his genetic imprint, just in case he would do something to innocent children.
Plus children porn is criminal because it involved rape of children, which is horrible crime, so watching it is supporting thoe crimes, that merit some sort of punishment, and justice can take care of it.
Finally he will be provided with counseling and maybe drugs to help him get out of that perversion....
just ebcause of stupid relatives who would regard a divorce/separation as your personal failure no matter what the circumstances, and because they can never let go of a chance to share spicy stories and because their own daughters are in good marraiges and you would always be looked down upon?
Don't you think I have the same concerns? I belong to a very very conservative family. But like I said somethings in life are worth taking a stand for.
I totally understand where ur coming from. I will try to defend him, it depends how deep has he gone into it. But if it gets out of control i will leave him too.
Thats just sick to the bone. I wouldn't be able to live with him because i would never be able to trust him around our kids or anyone's children for that matter.
^you are right. Has no one ever heard of people raping their own children. It does stem out of the same criminal behaviour. Think about it, your own children would be defenseless coz 'Daddy' is never a suspect. Mommy loves 'daddy'. Whom would the kid turn to?
there has been a case in the news here recently of a man and a woman who raped a very young child an infant i cant remember the details it was their court case.. but this is utterly sick and i wouldnt want to have n e thing to do with such a man ever.
and doesnt what all of you are saying raise the issue of a man sexually abusing his own children?
Okay, maybe not , cause i don't want to get in trouble. But, if I found out that he raped a child or molested a child then, yes, i think that's what i'd do.
If he's watching it, then i'd smack him a couple of time and leave. And, if i had kids, i'd make sure they stay with me cause i wouldn't trust him at all. And, i think maybe i'd hire a shrink to see if they could possibly help him or at least drug him enough so that he won't harm any child.
Ayesha, the people who are unethical/criminals.immoral are not muslims, christians/jews.Hindus, they are just criminals, religion doesn't come in the equation for them. That's why they have jails in every country.
this problem of child porn and sexual abuse is not just in one society or one culture or one religion.. dont think that ever....
it happen all over the world it happen in any religion.
Yes, it really does. Everything happens in muslim families, as Mywish has said, immoral things such as this are not culture/race specific. I personally know quite a few cases of this within the pakistani community and its really not nice. It's a lot harder to digest, as people assume the muslim community to be so religiously and culturally aware so they would not do things like this, buts its very common. It happens everywhere.
When it comes to children being abused by family members, you always think 'no' as a gut reaction, as everything looks so rosey on the outside. I was on a child protection course yesterday and the trainer said something about 80% of abused children are abused by family members.
Child pornography is illegal. Having it in your house, on your computer or in your car can land you in jail AND place you and all of your personal info on a sexual offender's list which is public information. Never would I risk getting myself hauled off to jail for something like this - if I found it in my house, I'd call the police and have them remove the sicko.
Having "regular" pornography is NOT illegal.
I'd leave immediately. There is NO help for those who are "into" children other than castration. I dont think I'd stay even if he were castrated though. Anyway, there isnt a cure for this particular sickness - if you find children sexually stimulating, then you ALWAYS will.