"You Can Do Whatever You Want After You're Married"

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re: “You Can Do Whatever You Want After You’re Married”

@madz124

My mom tells me this allll the time. Traveling? shaadi ke baad. Friends se milne jana after work? Never. Work se aake apne room main chale jana…bad habit. Abhi parents don’t like. Shaadi ke baad, in laws won’t like. Ghar main t shirt aur pj’s pehenna? Nooo! Kitne sharam ki baat hai. Hum koi goray thori hain.

I tell my mom she is like my saas. Too many restrictions and aitraazat.

This! seriously! i’ve heard all of these lines..

i think the best advice is to live in the moment. you can never really plan the future and predict how things are going to be 5 years down the road living with someone you havent even met yet. so if you’re 18-30 and single…live your life the way you want…make friends, socialize, travel, read, eat, work out, and study what you like (obviously i’m not advocating going wild and insane) but you can have plenty of fun while being responsible as well.
and hopefully once you meet someone and/or are arranged to be married with someone, you’ll have common interests or at least will respect each other’s wishes and desires and enjoy doing things together…but thats an ideal situation and life can get weird. so yeah, my advice to grls frm16 and onwards …just live your life the way you want right now…instead of planning what you’ll be doing with prince charming 5-6 years down the road.