well i had lots of bad things in my life. bad moments. bad experience. but even then i don't want to chance my childhood. caz it's because of those bad experience that today i am someting that i never expected to be :) .... I am happy for whatever Allah has bestowed upon me ...
^ur lucky u feel that way....the only thing that came out of my life was I know I am very strong..and nothing ever surprises me any more....and I know what mistakes should not be made, and I would do anything in the world to make sure that my kids will not have my child hood.
^ neither i as strong nor i used to feel that way ... but when i got sometime to think about myself and my past. I realized, that its just because of those things which had made me strong and feel that way.
Look at urself, you have learned one good lesson for your kids. You would not have thought about your kids that way if you did not have those bad experiences of life :)
if something is not killing you then its making you strong