Re: Yet another thread on whining women
Because it’s just easier to do that…change your way of approaching things, change your attitude etc, and in most cases (NOT in abuse)…it does work. I know there are some habits I changed about myself that has resulted in a better relationship with my husband because he’s started to reciprocate and change things about himself.
I totally get what you’re saying though, its not fair that the woman is the one who has to change but in most relationships (not just marital), the other person will notice the change and reciprocate. and if they don’t…then at least you know you did your best and made an effort.