Re: Yet another in laws thread
It’s very rare when a man admits that this is how it is.
Unless ur being sarcastic. 
Most guys think “oh my in laws are so nice, then all the women who complain must be lying.”
Re: Yet another in laws thread
I have a few stories of both sides: I have my in-laws & we are in-laws to our bhabis too so:
**My in-laws:
**I haven't lived with my in-laws so far since we haven't had rukhsati so far. They are a sweet bunch of people. Aunty always calls me up whenever she comes to know i am unwell. I find that a very sweet gesture of hers. She could very well ignore it but she cares enough to ask and I truly admire that.
Uncle always says that I am his daughter. Then he teasingly says to aunty, you can go live with your 3 daughters, my daughter is this girl who is coming to our house. His love is always obvious in his eyes, Masha Allah.
**For my bhabis:
**When my elder Bhabi was to deliver my bhateeji. My mother & I stayed in the hospital with her day & night for 4 days straight. We helped her with everything that was required during that period.
Just yesterday, my mother called my younger Bhabi downstairs for lunch but she was busy cleaning the room. So she said aunty ill eat it later. So after cleaning the room she took a bath & came down late but by then we were taking an afternoon nap. Later, in the evening when we got up we saw that lunch for her was still on the table. My mother started to cry thinking either Bhabi was unwell or not talking to her that she didn't eat food. So when Bhabi came down she gave mama a big hug and said aunty why would i do something like that, Ive had lunch already. don't worry about me. So then their lovey doveys continued. MA they both are like mother-daughter & its beautiful to watch them. Whenever bhabi is unwell, mama stays with her throughout, takes her to the doctor, gets her tea/medicine whatever she needs and doesn't leave her alone like she doesn't leave me alone. Bhabi reciprocates it all the same way, Masha Allah.
Re: Yet another in laws thread
Proves my point even further! She’s sick of the current two and you’re not indicted yet into the hall of shame so you’re a-ok to talk to about them. Once you get married and say 3-4 months later things would be different.
Actually no not being sarcastic, just mere (slightly exaggerated) observations.