Why do you chat, message, call, skype everyday? Give each other (or him) some space. I reckon your conversation will have some substance and charm if you two talk to each other after couple of days gap.
The guy probably gets pissed off you asking micky mouse questions thinking that the she couldn't wait to get out of my house to live her token life at her parents place, now living all the way in UK, she's suddenly so interested what I do in every minute of my life.
You shouldn't worry Nadzy, I'm sure his mama takes very good care of him! :)
Take it easy ... go online one day and tell him "I just want us to be online together and not say a word" ... Feel his love for being there online for you and don't question it ... don't feel the need to ask him questions ... look at each other if you have cameras ... and spend 20 mins doing just that ... It seems either you say something or he says something that annoys you ... so don't say anything ...
Seriously you need to give him some space!! Why do you have to be in contact for everyday??? give him sometime to MISS YOU! and call you by himself to ask YOUR HAAL CHAAL! and even my fiance cant talk to me properly when his family is around (we are engaged for 4years and before + 2yrs when we were in relationship) as i dont want my inlwas to know what we are talking about dont want them to give any sort of idea...I never bug my fiance never did and i think thats reason why his always chasing me. its human nature..if you go after someone they will "run" and if you dont they will "run" after you!
^no don't say that hareem...isn't that a recipe for disaster for nadzi..imagine going back :p
on a serious note, nadz men are not very expressive over the phone. Also they dont tend to talk about things they cant change. Like for us telling someone 'i miss you' or 'i want to be with you' might work like a charm in making us feel better because at the end of the day we are women and sharing makes us feel alot lighter.
For guys it's the opposite, it just frustrates them. It's more like 'ok you miss me, I miss you too..but what's the point of repeating it baar baar...we can't do anything about it'
So just give him his space and you enjoy with your parents and enjoy london because that's what you wanted all the time while you were in Pak!
Take it easy ... go online one day and tell him "I just want us to be online together and not say a word" ... Feel his love for being there online for you and don't question it ... don't feel the need to ask him questions ... look at each other if you have cameras ... and spend 20 mins doing just that ... It seems either you say something or he says something that annoys you ... so don't say anything ...
^ no, it sounds like a grey haired man wearing a black turtle neck speaking very gently to his ‘client’ who is on the couch for her psycho therapy session…
Agree with Sara especially about the trolling bit. Sometimes I think that there's like this mischevious side in you that likes to mess around on here. And if you are.....ever heard the story of the boy who cried wolf? It did not bode well for him in the end.
nadz either you have serious mental issues that you need to work out (NOT on GS) OR you're trolling us. In that case....shame on you.
Sara, doesn't the saying go:
*Fool me once, shame on you
Fool me twice, shame on me.
*
Given how long we've been reading and responding to Nadz's threads, who should be ashamed, her or us?
I will say that reading about the "issues" that Nadz faces and exacerbates with her reactions, on a daily basis, is both exasperating and humbling. It certainly makes me appreciate normalcy and boring in my life all the more...
She is a ray of sunshine and a ray of hope for those who do not have courage to discuss their relationships issues in these forums.
She is brave enough to come and open her heart and mind for everybody to watch and learn.
They learn what to do and what not to do in a marital relationship.
How to behave and how not to behave when your ILs are not so cordial with you as you want them to be.
