ok so people here at waiting for me to complain now that im bk in london, so here goesssss :]
So me and hubs chat every day, texting, skype etc…but whenever hes around someone else, eithe rmum dad anyone at home, he talks all formally, or as if we only been married a day or two NOT the mother of his children, married 2 years etc…
another annoying thing- he will want tocall me but hes not the talktative type, so i do most of the talking, and if i ask few question like what u eat today…what salan…he finds it odd and says why u askin so many questons which p#### me off, whats wong with aasking question,
maybe men are emotionally more strong so do not find it worthwhile to keep talking over skype and phone. after all we both (men and women) are so utterly differently built. dont expect your man to act always the way you would or the way you want. Let him be himself and you be yourself.
It should annoy you more that he is not missing you and living happily ever after.
Why don't you ask him to put cameras all around house and one top of his head so you know what is going on once you have left ?
well I think you should talk to him less if theres no conversation. or tell him that the reason why you ask so many question is because you are interested in his day and want to know what he does while you're so far away.
also if he's shy then thats too bad? you can't do anything to change that and shouldn't. You married him knowing that he is conservative. You were stupid to think he will change.
Now I've been wondering don't you have ANY friends to talk about these kind of stuff? or did you drive them away because you complain so much?
This is called making the conversation.
Nadz try the following with your husband it will help you pass 6 month long maternity leave you are on.
An old guy and a young guy were traveling in a train .
old guy : Where are you going
Young guy : I am going to Lahore and you ?
Old guy : I am going to Lahore too. Where in Lahore are you going ?
YG: Gulburg and you ?
OG : I am going to Gulberg too. Where do you live ?
YG : I live in Karach , where you live ?
OG : I Live in Karachi too, Which mohalla do you live in ?
YG: I live in Defence Society and you ?
OG : I live in Defence Society also , what a coincidence , which sharah you live on ?
YG: Sharah a Jami and you ? I live on Sharah Jami too , what is your house number ?
OG : My house number is 420 and yours.
YG : Oh , oh , my house number is 420 too on sharah jami.
A guy was eavesdropping and could not stay quite and asked “hey you too live in the same house and do not know each other ? "
Old guy said we are father and son and we are just making conversation to pass the time. It is a long journey to Lahore from Karachi . Isn’t it ?”
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and :hinna:
i hope you are feeling better now. 
