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^Yes, please carry on with the above action. It will give all parties a much needed break. :k:
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I don't blame your husband as you seem the most annoying wife ever. I mean even I get annoyed reading your life story.
There are people who genuinely need help/advice and there is you nadz, wasting everyones time.
Just saying it how it is...
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OH SHUT UP…its not as if IM TAKING the place of someone more worthy with their REAL problems…if someone has a real problem, well, answer their query, you do realise that gupshup isnt the alternative emergency hotline, where if your issuess are not answered asap, then something fatal will be the consquence…get a grip…
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OH SHUT UP....its not as if IM TAKING
Errrrm....Speak English?
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The thing is when you read this current thread of yours...you wonder "So what else is new?"
Your husband would have the same "reserved" behavior around you (in the presenence of his parents) had you been there with him in Pakistan. Does not necessarily mean he doesn't love you....but perhaps that is just him sticking to what he perceives is culture or the "norm" regarding these things things (especially in presence of parents). It would be WORSE had he ignored you on Skype in their absence as well. And you said that he has the DESIRE to talk to you...but perhaps is not good with online communication. And if you argue that he's more affectionate to you around your own parents....perhaps it's a difference of culture/environment that accounts for that.
Moreove, you can't really have a "conversation" with him when you ask him questions that ONLY have a one-word answer.
I don't understand that point of it all. LIke usual you're going to respond that such and such advice can't/won't work for you. SOmetimes I think that deep down inside you is this mischevious side that likes to troll .....and I wonder if it's not coming out in the form of such threads.
You could consider not calling him for a few days/a week...and give him the chance to miss you enough to talk to you better.
**********Or perhaps the unheeded warnings that many of us gave you in regards to your excessive complaining......are finally taking their toll on your marriage. I can totally see how such an attitude can slowly but surely diminish a person's affection/respect/and desire to spend time with that person (the complainer). Allah na karay....but if it continues......there may be WORSE consequences than just "him not talking much"....ones that will not only affect you but other parties as well.
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^
The ever so diplomat. :p
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reading the thread’s title on main forum page made it really obvious right away that OP would be nadz123 !! :k:
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Nadz I recommend you buy one of these books:
http://www.amazon.com/s/?ie=UTF8&keywords=the+art+of+conversation+book&tag=googhydr-20&index=aps&hvadid=4307791757&ref=pd_sl_84fwi5g5sg_b
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HAH! Did you not read the post that preceded more longer response? The diplomacy is wearing thin. 
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Your hubbie is a mamma's boy. And yes he will always act formal in front of his parent, siblings or other relatives. Doesn't he behave in a similar way when you are with him?
I'd cut back on the skyping/texting just a bit.
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Nadz when are u due???
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Why don't you teasingly ask him why he's talking so formally? Let it be a joke and playful.
As for the conversation, I don't blame him for being annoyed at the boring topics. I would be too. Some people just don't like sitting and talking on the phone without purpose.
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Well you do love writing essays however it seems lately you’re suffering from writers block.. Lol
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No I don’t particularly “love” writing essays. The length depends upon how much I feel like saying. Diplomacy also has nothing do with the length of a post. Also, no, I’m not suffering from writer’s block…but thank you for your concerm. I wasn’t aware that you monitored the length of my every post. 
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Monitoring in the sense how many lines, haha. But on a serious note I actually do read your posts as they make sense and are neutrally written. Unlike many other posters. I guess I like to generally keep it short and sweet. 
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May God give our brother strength and patience to face these challenging circumstances and survive. Ameen.
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hmmm rethought post
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The logic behind the behaviour is simple:
1 - Guys feel awkward being expressive in front of others esp your & his parents
2 - Learnt this the hard way but guys rarely have stuff to share or discuss, they prefer keeping things to themselves because they feel they can better solve them on their own & sharing isn't a solution. To converse more, girls ask more & more questions which tends to annoy them. Heck mine even gets annoyed if i ask *'what did you do at work' *:p .. but since the logic is clear now, I am good to go with it!
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lolz perfect example of chipu wife :) sorry dont mind but i m also like this asking everything from huby but only when he is alone i never talk 2 him when his family is around especially his mum i always text him call me when u r alone :) the 1st thing i told him after nikah was tht i talk 2 much so get ready n thnk god he is still tolerating me :) lucky 2 have him :)
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ok so people here at waiting for me to complain now that im bk in london, so here goesssss :]
So me and hubs chat every day, texting, skype etc.....but whenever hes around someone else, eithe rmum dad anyone at home, he talks all formally, or as if we only been married a day or two NOT the mother of his children, married 2 years etc.....
another annoying thing- he will want tocall me but hes not the talktative type, so i do most of the talking, and if i ask few question like what u eat today......what salan....he finds it odd and says why u askin so many questons which p#### me off, whats wong with aasking
You chat, skype and text with him every day. So what if in between he starts behaving formally because someone is around him??!!
Dont look for problems when there aren't any.
Maybe you should place a camera around you, which records you (your behavior) 24/7 for a period of time.
And then afterwards watch the recording.................................
and learn from it. Please.