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Who cares man .... let it it be. You have your preferences in your life partner and that person has theirs. You wouldn't marry someone who is uneducated even though some non-degree holders I know are far more intellectually capable and nicer and bright minded than degree holders but you would still call them a jahil. Same way this guy has his preferences of what beauty is. Live and let live I say
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uhm wel
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He also sang “sanwali saloni si mehbooba”… :halo:
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^ is gaanay ka maqsad junaid uncle ka apnee saanwlee fans ko bachaana tha ... ...yeh syasee maqsad ka gaana tha : P
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sara qasoor junaid jamshaid ka hay us nay kion yeh gaana banaya
goray rang ka zamana ..kabhi ho ga na purana ...agay kia tha konfused
Junaid Jamshed also sung
" Sanwali Saloni si Mehbooba"..... Its not really all his fault....
I hate the desi mentality when they talk about a rishta and also use this term "Gori chiti" (Fair complexioned)
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It's widespread-the judging of people that is. I know of a girl who is light in skin tone but is quite curvy and she's had more rejections then one would like to have...and the last ristaa that came actually said 'if she can lose weight and keep it off I'd consider her'.
Personally I'm with the thought that looks fade, we all age, we all become old...the only thing that will remain is our personality so it's a better thing to judge on.
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Everyoen has their preference. alot of desi guys are attracted to dark girls as wel. im quite dark and did not have an issue in getting proposals. but ofcourse there is always those wierd aunties with somewhat twisted ideology of beauty. to each their own. anyway, ther is plenty of desi men who are very much attrated to dark skin aswell so dont get discouraged.
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JJ ne Sanwali Salooni gana banaya thaa naa .. kaali kalooti to nahi banaya thaa.
What is wrong with you people, leave us gora people alone, will ya. 
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This Afro-American girl once told me while she was waiting for her friend outside a tanning booth, she said to everyone who was going inside:
" Don’t go inside people, look at me they messed up my color". 
Just be happy for who you are. Confidence goes long ways.
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You are kali?
erase her from "to do" list
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forgive him cthulhu, for he knows not what he blabbers on..
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Most girls don't ask for things they don't have themselves eg I've yet to ever come across a dark girl who says she must have a fair skinned man but with the desi guys half of them who insist on a fair girl aren't even light-skinned themselves.. same with the virgin thing..
Those girls who only insist on only tall (or rich or educated or whatever) men themselves **when they aren't **are just as bad imo..
Girls might have preferences but usually they don't have as many double-standards and do often take their own 'minuses' or shortcomings into account as well..
People are mentioning girls will only marry guys with degrees which is just as bad but isn't it usually girls who also have degrees that end up with these men and those without marry men who don't?
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I dont have to worry about it, I used Fair & Lovely and now I am very very fair, hence very very lovely
i thought there is fair and handsome for guys and fair and lovely for girls
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^Is it just the same cream but in different packaging?
Yanzala the desi obsession with 'fair and lovely' is retarded.. I know how pathetic ppl can be.. At my brother's engagement party some aunties actually openly said 'why did he pick her over so-and-so's daughter' just cos my SIL has medium/dark-ish skin.. They think she's 'average' even tho she has gorgeous bone structure and looks like Frieda Pinto's twin..
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wow, a girl rejecting a guy for not being educated/having a degree is NOT EQUIVALENT to a family putting down a girl for being dark skinned.
Seriously?
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I think they're both as bad if you demand something you aren't/haven't done yourself.. Not fair on the guys for having to put up with the other family wanting a degree** if** the girl didn't bother going to uni (or even work in some cases)..
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i meant desi kala too....one just like you.....he couldn't complain..
are you kidding me?? seriously..........if you know anything about typical desi guys.....regardless of how they look. they want a wife who look like miss world............and not those african american, or hespenic miss worlds, they want a goori chitti one.
look.....not that i want to marry anyone with such shallow mentality, but it does bother me....not because i am upset they rejected my proposal.....but only because how could they complain about something that has done to me by ALLATHALA?
and i agree with sara, rejecting someone based on their education, or social standards isn't same as rejecting someone based on their skin color. because you can take control of your own education, or financial stuff (up to some extends) but you can't do anything about your skin complexion.
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^ hey what’s wrong in wanting a miss world lookalike wifey 
You do realize Miss Jamaica has been a miss world too! There is hope!
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are you kidding me?? seriously..........if you know anything about typical desi guys.....regardless of how they look. they want a wife who look like miss world............and not those african american, or hespenic miss worlds, they want a goori chitti one.
look.....not that i want to marry anyone with such shallow mentality, but it does bother me....not because i am upset they rejected my proposal.....but only because how could they complain about something that has done to me by ALLATHALA?
**and i agree with sara, rejecting someone based on their education, or social standards isn't same as rejecting someone based on their skin color. because you can take control of your own education, or financial stuff (up to some extends) but you can't do anything about your skin complexion.
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More so the reason why you shouldn't reject him because his social standard and education you can help him with ane encourage him in to improving. Its something that can be changed. Skin color and other stuff sadly is genetic and can't really do much about it can we.
Again I am not really for fair skin or anything but if someone is then let them. Who cares? You find someone who digs you and your skin color/bone structure/looks. Everyone has the right to pick whether he/she has double or triple standards. You should just be glad that you didn't get stuck with a moron.
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listen to this and feel better.
I think everyone is entitled to their preferences, we might not like it or it might not be politically correct but life moves on. Although I agree that no one should be insulted/degraded just because of their race/color.