yes i am "kali", sue me

[Maham]

Re: yes i am “kali”, sue me

@yanzala

I got your point maham and I do think it’s a good point. It’s different I guess if you are attracted toward a gori girl, but maybe I m not giving a clear idea of my point which is: a guy who sent a proposal for me few years ago told me (few days ago) that when his bhabi saw me the first time she told him that I m perfect girl fir him “more for reason of green card than anything” but mai kali hon, so think before sending that rishta. And that bugged me cuz the guy hadn’t even seen me to decide if he would be attracted toward me or not but it’s prematurely decided that since I m dark I m not acceptable.
And my point was also those fair and lively ads where girls get rishta, get jobs, become rock star only by getting fairer.
I understand attraction cuz I strongly believe in it but again my point is more like when an aunty see two siblings one is fair another one darker she comments to the mother that gora bacha is cuter and kala wala is not. And that thought injected in their newer generation’s mind that kala pan is not acceptable.
It’s not about attraction it’s about a mind set.

Ok. I get your point too BUT don’t you think the guy is also a jerk IF he listened to his bhabi and couldnt see any further possibility with you based on what she said. I am sure if he is marriagable, he is not 10-12 who goes bt what he is told.

And totally agree with you abt those ads which are responsible on further instigating in us that being fair is the way to go about everything. It totally sucks.