becaz arabs are real gentle men unlike mushrique murd . once a lady is dis satisfied and she approaches a qaazi it is an embarrasement for her husband and her husband is immediately called and asked . but mushrique women have to bear each and every thing - not to even think of going to a qaazi and tolerate everything that he imposes on her . moreover its her own embarrasement if she approaches a qqzi - you see its a societal pressure and threats of a male dominated society faced by both men and women .
BTW this is a totally female oriented thread :p
i didnt know women could go to the qazi and complaint... wowww !!!