When you use the word "satisfy", do you mean strictly from a sexual stand-point, or do you mix in other boring things too ... financial, emotional etc?
I don't think sexual is too much of a problem. Men, all over the history, have had extra-marital affairs which is just a proof that their libido is not designed for monogomy. What stops people from taking multiple wives is either legal issues (western countries), financial issues (supporting multiple wives and families) or cultural norms, not to mention the huge emotional stress (first wives won't tolerate it) in cultures that do not generally condone multiple marriages. That, and of course, that li'l thing that they are so deeply in love with their first wife and live such a hugely satisfied life with her that they don't feel the need to look elsewhere. Oh well! :)
becaz arabs are real gentle men unlike mushrique murd . once a lady is dis satisfied and she approaches a qaazi it is an embarrasement for her husband and her husband is immediately called and asked . but mushrique women have to bear each and every thing - not to even think of going to a qaazi and tolerate everything that he imposes on her . moreover its her own embarrasement if she approaches a qqzi - you see its a societal pressure and threats of a male dominated society faced by both men and women .
Faisal bhai jaan , I know extra affairs is one thing marraige is different.
One is like going to resturant once in a while and having good time
Other is like bringing cheff home and keeping him home permanently. Theek hia acha khana tu roz miley ga lekin 4 cheffs for one man ??? . Is it not way more than what is required.
I mean Ek cheff ke nakhrey hi bohat hotey hian
Yaar kisi ka koi hamsaya , koi colleague tu hoga na koi arbi. kabhi kisi ne nahi bataya wo “secret” :aq:
girls : please desi men bashing wala thread doosra hai , wahan chali jao ! this is differnet topic.
Have you seen the Arbi diet? Lots of protein, olive oil, hardly any spices. Desi mardoN ka digestive system works overtime after eating all the niharis and haleems so other systems naturally slow down
This is not a sazish! It’s a circle of petu men wanting food all the time and the ladies dedicated to cooking for them. Haven’t you noticed, in desi homes, especially back home, all ghar ki aurteiN and girls spend all day cooking and serving the boys and men of the family?
Disclaimer: I don’t have any brothers so this venting above is from watching desi TV shows
anyway..its a cultural thing..men in middle east..northern africa etc have been practicing polygamy for centuries…islamic or not…south asian men which include modern day pakistanis (indian previously)…are not too accustomed to a lifestyle that comes with more than one wife.. … south asian women are so not ok with this idea because we came from the influence of Indian culture where polygamy is not practiced..their homes have always been a ‘one-woman’ home.
well yep i tottaally agree wid aisha ,her kisi arbi ki nai hoti ager hoti hain to half of em satisfied their bivis wid money ,,,,,itna paisa dete hain bivio ko ke sara din shoppin hi kerti rehti hai aur kuch nai kerti ,,,,
dun u think this is y arbi women girls are cheating on their men cuz they cant satisfy their wives i mean think poor souls have to satisfy 4 girls everynyt WOW!! JAI HO ARBYION KI!!!
codeR, you're not correct. The present day 'arbi' people cheat on their lawful wives and have relations with many women outside of wedlock much more than the past. Because.... they do not necessarily follow the old islamic tradition of 4 wives with easy women available in their or the neighbouring countries. You see, with the new money easily accessible to every tom, dick harry of the arab land, arriving the new set of morals to their heads.
Dusri aur teesri arbi se kar leyna. 