the most sarcastic and irrelevant remark of all the posts is liked by most people look - how in the world are we gonna get better?!
It is sarcastic but the comment has been made in good faith. It is intention that counts. She is trying to knock some sense into OP , she is not insulting her.
the point here is how many ppl liked it ... anyway its ok
It is sarcastic but the comment has been made in good faith. It is intention that counts. She is trying to knock some sense into OP , she is not insulting her.
guys i m so like getting depressed... n mom n all family members r too. Y because jahan kahin b mere rishtay ki bat chalti hai, it never get fixed... God made me pretty, have perfect height, m masters, gud family background n status. but even then y kuch theek nai ho ra... m 22 even :( y things r not hapenning... ye sab mere sath hi q ho ra hai... i have seen girls having plenty of affairs n even they get a perfect man too.. n luk at me.. my mama is too over tense abt all this... guys please help me... kia msla hai... ??????? help me.................................................................................... or before i get psychotic
Everyone thinks the same way... ye sab merey saath hi kion ho raha hai. If you look around and ask your friends/ cousins etc, you will know same things happens to everyone in the marriage related manners. Since these are quite private matters, girls and their families usually don't tell everyone why and how they get rejected by the guys and their families, and then we tend to think that ONLY we are going through the process of rejection. Majority of the girls usually put up a strong face in public and engage themselves in higher education and jobs and if asked, they show they are quite busy in their life and don't have time to get married etc. In real, they are not getting good proposals. So stop sympathising with yourself and stop thinking that these things are only happening with you. If you just look around on GS, many of us are going through similar things (I just turned 28, lost my dad few years ago, still unmarried, my mom is depressed and had been so close to finalising the rishtas many many times but then things fell apart each and every time).
Also, being a perfect girl doesn't guarantee a good proposal in no time. We have seen many many gorgeous perfect girls not being able to attract good matches. On the other hand, many average looking girls have been married early to close to perfect guys with very less efforts. You are young and you have much time to get married. Don't make this your one and only goal in life.
I suggest that you should keep yourself busy in your life, in education or job. Take the shaadi process simultaneously and don't immerse yourself in the process to the point that you start feeling depressed everytime people say no to you. Take this process lightly whily focussing on your routine life. It will happen when its meant to happen.
Out of curiosity, what is your height, and what have you done Masters in? and from where?
m 5feet n 6inches.. i did my masters from Punjab university m M.sc Geography, i topped in my department
Common on Bish............. you are young.................. don't be stressed on things which are not in your hands.............. see i am 29 and still unmarried............... but i am utilizing my time by getting more education and doing job................ get busy in job.......... don't waste your time........ When rite time comes......... you will get married with a perfect guy InshaAllah.
yar my mom n family is stressed out n im getting too
Get busy in some creative activity, maybe other people are sensing your desperation.
Never talk to close aunties about it. More you say no (despite saying inside yes) more people will work hard to get you married!
Trust me! People don't want to see others happy. ;)
u r right... my mom frnds r like... HAYE,,,, ISKA RISHTA KRDAY... KAB KREGI... KAB HOGA.... KUCH KRLE....
What's the hurry, it will happen when its meant to be.
Marriage is not the only thing we are brought in this world for. Enjoy your life & quit worrying
in pak for the people only MARRIAGE is the reason ONLY!!
miyaaN, **"rishta darkaar hai"**** hai kii taKhtii zeb-e-gulu kar ke bar sar-e-raah baiTh jaaiye...kisii na kisii Haseena mahjabeena ko to taras aa hii jaayegaa...ummeed pe dunyaa qaayam hai, bachchoo!** :D