guys i m so like getting depressed… n mom n all family members r too. Y because jahan kahin b mere rishtay ki bat chalti hai, it never get fixed… God made me pretty, have perfect height, m masters, gud family background n status. but even then y kuch theek nai ho ra… m 22 even 
y things r not hapenning… ye sab mere sath hi q ho ra hai… i have seen girls having plenty of affairs n even they get a perfect man too.. n luk at me.. my mama is too over tense abt all this… guys please help me… kia msla hai… ??? help me… or before i get psychotic
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There's a set time for everything. When your time comes, it will come. I wouldn't worry too much. And you're still pretty young, you shouldn't be stressing too much about this.
I know girls older than you who are educated, pretty, etc, but still haven't got rishtas' - so you're really not alone out there.
Just look at the people who have less than you, and be grateful for everything you have.
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No need to go psycho
Time and space usually get in the way of such things
You just need to bend them to your will
Find a wormhole and you'll be all good
Or...
I could clone myself and send him over
:D
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you are complete package. I dont see any specific reason. 
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22? 22? 22? TWENTY-TWO???
OMG!!! You’re soooo ancient. Way past your expiration date. Tsk tsk..you should have had grandbabies by now 
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RV: early twenties is considered norm in pakistan.
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You are not old enough yet, to worry about passing the marriageable age.
Make a dua to Allah for your rishta after every namaz. Dua works , I guarantee it.
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You are not old enough yet, to worry about passing the marriageable age. Make a dua to Allah for your rishta after every namaz. Dua works , I guarantee.
I would suggest her to pray salat-e-tahajjud and ask Allah for best spouse.
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You are 22 and you have a masters degree? You must be crazy smart!
Anyway, 22 is pretty young to be worrying about not finding a good rishta. Invest your time in something more productive(?) You can be more than just a wife...
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God made me pretty, have perfect height
So ummm wanna marry me and stuff?
C'mon, everyone says no, be original, say yes.
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you're 22, and you talk like that and you want to accept rishtas. sort it out.
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You mentioned your height, but what about weight? Maybe we should work on that?
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Out of curiosity, what is your height, and what have you done Masters in? and from where?
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Out of curiosity, what is your height, and what have you done Masters in? and from where?
cant she just post her profile link here?
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I had a Masters at 23. Come on people and I went to uni late - by one year, we call it GAP year - fall into the GAPPP.
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This I gotta see Watches in fascination 
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black magic? are there creepy old women in your surroudings who either dont like you or your family?
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the most sarcastic and irrelevant remark of all the posts is liked by most people look - how in the world are we gonna get better?!
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RV: early twenties is considered norm in pakistan.
I think in Pak, parents start searching pretty early ...sometimes around 18-19....and hope to get their daughters married off by the time they finish college. But there's been a good mix from my mom and dad's side of the family. There's only a few cousins who got married in their early 20s...the earliest being 18-19 (and that was a cousin raised in the US). But many of my cousins in Pak got married in their mid to late 20s. Perhaps there is a general time frame for when parents start searching and maybe a norm for societal expectations.....but what actually happens (as in one's kismat) does not always coincide with the norm expectation.
I know everyone is different in terms of maturity level, but I didn't really know myself all that well at 22. And sometimes I think that the stress of getting married.....especially in Pakistan where the norm expectation is at a younger age.....is due to competition where you see friends and relos getting hitched and then parents compare and start feeling like they're "behind", etc.......or possibly even a romantic-bollywoodish notion of marriage....which is not unusual when you're younger. As you get older, you have a more realistic view.
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Common on Bish............. you are young.................. don't be stressed on things which are not in your hands.............. see i am 29 and still unmarried............... but i am utilizing my time by getting more education and doing job................ get busy in job.......... don't waste your time........ When rite time comes......... you will get married with a perfect guy InshaAllah.