After marriage boy can meet his friends whther he or she?
but a girl cant meet her friends even female friends?
is it right?
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who said that? 
I am not sure who do you girls go for advise on relationship but whoever you go to, I have doubt about their own relationships.
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Amaya, who told you this?
And no, it isn’t right. When a girl gets married, she doesn’t cut off all ties with everyone she has ever known. 
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actually i hv seen many girls who got married and their husband dont like that they meet their friends.
nw hv been noticed the views of my fiance as well. first he said he will meet friends who kis type kay hain? no prob he wannna meet . but said i dint like that u go and meet them . whther at home or outside restaurant.
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Wow…
I genuinely thought girls who get married are less likely to spend time with their friends because they generally have more responsibilities and thus have less time to spare. 
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I have to be honest I don’t spend as much time with my friends as I did before I got married but neither does my husband. We both see our friends a few times a month.
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guys who stop you from seeing friends are scared that those "friends" will start putting ideas in your head taht something is wrong with your relationship. basically stems from insecurity and possessiveness.. (of course there are those situations where one or two friends really ARE bad for you but that doesn't seem to be the case here).
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actually i hv seen many girls who got married and their husband dont like that they meet their friends. nw hv been noticed the views of my fiance as well. first he said he will meet friends who kis type kay hain? no prob he wannna meet . but said i dint like that u go and meet them . whther at home or outside restaurant.
Tell him he need to get his act together otherwise this engagement is off.
If he is controlling you before marriage think of what he will do afterward.
He is narrow minded and needs to learn a thing or two about relationships built on trust , love and respect.
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Tell him he need to get his act together otherwise this engagement is off. If he is controlling you before marriage think of what he will do afterward. He is narrow minded and needs to learn a thing or two about relationships built on trust , love and respect.
I wouldn't go that far. Have a civil conversation with him about issues that are important to you, whether it be this, or anything else. The last thing you want is to start things off with resentment slowly building, because that only will lead you down a bad place. Good luck and stuff!
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I wouldn't go that far. Have a civil conversation with him about issues that are important to you, whether it be this, or anything else. The last thing you want is to start things off with resentment slowly building, because that only will lead you down a bad place. Good luck and stuff!
OK , just tell him to grow up and do not give him an ultimatum. But make sure he grows out of this premarital controlling behavior and becomes a insaan da puttar.
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Where do people find such gems. I guess another question to add during the rishta interview should be "Will you be okay with your spouse interacting with friends or will you pitch a hissy fit and confine them to the home?" Some of these threads and generalizations are depressing.
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Where do people find such gems. I guess another question to add during the rishta interview should be "Will you be okay with your spouse interacting with friends or will you pitch a hissy fit and confine them to the home?" Some of these threads and generalizations are depressing.
It is not a generalization though RV unfortunately in happens at a larger scale than you think.
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You don’t wants any girl to stay engaged…
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even female friend. 
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Engagement at the cost of peace of mind is not a good bargain. There are lot of good fish in rishta pond.
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Engagement at the cost of peace of mind is not a good bargain. There are lot of good fish in rishta pond.
peace of mind for a woman don't exist.....its only a myth......there is always something to complain about......
If there was plenty of good fish.....we wouldn't be seeing so much threads (talking about GS) and other issues of girls being unable find rishta.....
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I breakedoff my engagement (Actually not me my parents did it) because he wanted to control me like a robot. He asked me to cut off all contacts not only with my friends but with relatives too.
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i know there are idiots like those…u did good..
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i know there are idiots like those.....u did good..
I agree they are idiots. I don't know why they want us to be unsocial while enjoy whole freedom and social lives themselves.
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I agree they are idiots. I don't know why they want us to be unsocial while enjoy whole freedom and social lives themselves.
its actually some sort of 'advisor' in many cases........who tells them that they need to control her in everyway.......
just like 'advisors' to girls who tell them about manipulation n stuff.....