Re: wud u accept a souten? :D
thanks Pathani.
for sharing what you shared here.
intense but the thought of peace you have is that you are the honest one.
such people end up in ruins. and that is their choice to some extent.
they choose to be so.
same for anyone, if people were taking advantage of someone.
sounds difficult to accept, but an emotionally disturbed man can be forgiven when he realizes what he has done and that he has the strength to address his wrong doing.
but the sad thing is that some people in this world, are unable to accept their own flaws. they project on others and in reality, their emotions are suffocated that is why.
wish you thebest now.
:)
dushwari
Bhai DF, let us get things straight. She knew he was about to get married with me. She was engaged to another man. He had a son from previous marriage. He came all the way from US along with family and son and she simply told him that she loved sum1 else. The arranged marriage was cancelled and she kept on dating meeting my ex in public. I think, I was more ashamed of her behaviour than herself. I played things straight and I dont give a d a m n about them both. They ruined selfesteem and got me to the point of wanting to end myself while being a new wed bride. I just couldnt see how I could tell my family what he was doing against me in a total foreign country. We were engaged for over 2 years. He had only known her as a new friend for six months. Why should an emotional disturbed man be forgiven? There is no forgiveness in my heart. He robbed me for all I had saved up much more. Just a namard. A planned evil action as that, is not the sort that should be forgiven. Ok, enough about this. Just thought to give u the right prospective.
IF I saw a new couple married and happy, even if the man had promissed me marriage, I would leave them alone. How many times, have I not been offered to become second wife and declined it? Becaz, what I cant do to others, I dont want it for myself either.