Re: Wrong girl for brother
Thank you all for your advices and comments. My mom found out a day or two ago and she confronted me today asking about it. I told her whatever needed to be said and now she will take care of it. She is a strong and intelligent woman and I have no doubts that she knows exactly what needs to be done. This has relieved me to quite an extent as my brother is an obedient son and would consider my mom's feelings in this matter. As Munni said above, it is now at a point where my parents do need to get involved. You're right, regardless of what age he is at, he owes my parents an explanation for whatever he is doing. If he wants to do anything against their will, he can gladly dissociate himself from our family and do whatever he wills on his own. But as long as he is a part of this family, he will do what my parents tell him to. I cannot stand someone coming to my mom tomorrow and telling her that oh by the way, I heard your son is doing this or that with some girl.. I can't stand to think about the pain that will cause my mom to hear something of that kind from an outsider. It may be his life or business or whatever but it is also a fact that anything he does effects every single one of us in the family. He's related to us by blood, we will be hurt by his actions and would want him to be on the right path and not just walk away giving him the freedom to do anything that he pleases to.
Thanks for all the replies, I really appreciate how you guys have all contributed with your replies. Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings in this thread which I know I definitely have. And Dushwari, a very big thank you to you for you know what :)