Re: Wrong girl for brother
the kicker is, we don't know the girl at all! even from a sister's POV, it seems these observations are all surface observations. you dont know whats in her heart, you dont know what promises her brother has made to this girl since he's not acting without self-will since he's not a robot but a human being, nor do you know what their relationship is like. this just seem likes mostly conjecture and based off other people's opinions and personal likes/dislikes.
gah! i give up.
good luck talking to your parents. i hope things work out for the best for you and your family, but i also hope you can find it in you to be a bit more understanding about this girl too. maybe she's looking for attention cos her home life sucks, or maybe this is who she is. regardless, keep an open mind about things. if your bro does decide to stick with her and marry her, be prepared to give her a chance for the sake of future relationships.
why don't you talk to your brother and find out exactly what they're up to and how serious they are. and then maybe let your bro know how you feel and how your parents will feel. after that, i think you'll have done your duty to him-- you've told him you think what he's doing his wrong, you've told him what is islamically right/wrong, and you've warned him of the consequences as laid out by Allah. after that, the ball is in his court and he gets to choose whether he continues or not. i strongly feel that parents need to hear these things first hand, not from siblings and cousins or other family- this is between them.