Would you....................

Reha · January 23, 2011, 7:59am

Would u marry a guy who is a widower and has kids? Or a divorcee with no kids?

Do u think he is looking for a nanny or maid for the kids or do u think he will be a good husband ?

Who would you pick and why?

Vari · January 23, 2011, 8:21am

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no-way

Hadeel · January 23, 2011, 9:33am

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Thats a tough pick Reha!

I'll go for not getting married at all.

payal_sharma · January 23, 2011, 10:18am

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well the widower with kids is an absolute no no no... i'd rather stay single. that is just tooo much baggage !!!!

the divorcee.... if i happen to meet him and that eventually turned into a romantic things with serious thoughts... then maybe. but not if he was married for more than a year and then divorced !!! also very very very unlikely.... but never say never .....

nowadays a lot of marriages end up in divorce within a year it self !!! I'm 30, ppl that I've gone to school with have gotten married had kids divorced and married again !!!! phew....

Sara516 · January 23, 2011, 10:38am

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Well whether he is divorced or widowed, the woman has to make sure that she can be good for the kids and not the stereotypical "stepmother"!

Deeba1234 · January 23, 2011, 12:26pm

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Yes I would, if I loved him..

Nisha25 · January 23, 2011, 1:39pm

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sure why not, if he's caring,loving,doesn't disrespect me or my loved ones and i feel the same way about him.

mama_ki_dua · January 23, 2011, 3:42pm

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Nope

inzi_rocks · January 23, 2011, 3:52pm

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Divorcee.. yeah maybe.. after finding out why he was divorced in the first place

Widower.. hmm..would have to give this a lot of thought. But as someone said.. never say never.. you never know what’s written for you

aaliyahkhan1 · January 23, 2011, 4:01pm

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Yes, why not? If we expect guys to not discriminate girls who are divorced, or a widowed and have kids...they should not be discriminated either.

blessed2006 · January 23, 2011, 8:37pm

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Yes

Ujalaa · January 23, 2011, 8:43pm

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I would think yes, even if he had kids as long as I was sure I could be a good mother to them and he had the qualities I was looking for then I don't see the harm.

NomiCA · January 23, 2011, 8:44pm

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wats wrong with you?? have you no ettiquette ?

firenze · January 23, 2011, 9:12pm

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so you are overage, well your reply explains why no one married you yet.

princessjojo · January 23, 2011, 9:30pm

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I wouldn't marry someone with kids for the fear of being unfair to them when I have my own.

Widower or divorcee with no kids? Yes, maybe. But not my first preference.

I don't see much difference between marrying a widower, divorcee or a guy who has been in a full-fledged pre-marital relationship (from a non-religious perspective).

aaliyahkhan1 · January 23, 2011, 9:43pm

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hain? ki matlab u ka???

Sara516 · January 23, 2011, 11:41pm

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Really? Is that a good thing or bad thing?

Cz if guys said the same thing about a widowed/divorced woman....ppl would be on em like white on rice.

Nisha25 · January 23, 2011, 11:53pm

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^^^good point

princessjojo · January 24, 2011, 12:57am

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The majority of the girls here will be OK with marrying a guy who has been in a past relationship (not marriage) because the majority opinion on this forum is "past is past."

So what's wrong in marrying a guy who has been widowed or divorced (provided for a valid reason) ?? What's the discrimination for??

I see my lack of discrimination as a good thing. I think all 3 men can be equally good (or bad) spouses.

If I was a guy, I would say the same thing with respect to female divorcees/widows.

King_Mughal · January 24, 2011, 2:28am

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i think this isnt a guy thread....hahaha