would you?

[lady_lama]

@Bigboi

I would make sure if she was raped first hand…now that is CONTROVERSIAL!

The answer is, No! Why should I!?!

@iShaz

If she has the qualities i want in my wife, then i would.

They won’t say a single word. They know it’s my decision and most probably they will be fine with it and respect it.

If she sits down with me before marriage and tell me everything and that she was a victim of this…i wouldn’t really care about it and won’t hold it against her. As said above, if she has the qualities I expect in my wife and we both get along fine, then i don’t see why not?

I’ll get few ISI people to spy on her for few months just to make sure she is not cheating again. Just kidding.

I’ll appreciate if she tells me all this before Shaadi…but i wouldn’t really mind id she tells me after marriage…everyone has had a past…if she is ready to put aside her past and moves on then i won’t have a problem with it. I wouldn’t get suspicious because she had the guts to tell me and shows she’s being honest. However, if i find this out from someone else i.e. from her close friend, ex.. then i will definately have a problem with it and will definately get suspicious. I will also get 2-3 people to Spy on her and find out what she’s upto behind my back.

:k: good! =) and thats the way it shud be! thank god theres somewhat of a decent balance between the narrow minded and the normal minded guys!