Okay, i agree with you on the part where there are things tht ought to remain between a couple and couple only, but a thing like RAPE well at any pointa time someone finds out, some how cuz trust me nothing stays hidden for long, then it becomes a huge issue for the girl, as i said before as well the answer is not just a plain yes or no, you have to discuss this and obviously bring it to your parents attention and once you know what happens if a mom throws a tantrum.
Khair i wish that everyone has parents like yours but the majority thinks otherwise :k: