Lady Lama if you see all my posts i did not say i wont, however i did say i will have hesitations given as per the mentioned issues, if the girls is mentally strong and is now stable hell yeah i would.
NOW coming to you second point, well this is where ppl get it wrong, i used to think the same way where marriage is between 2 ppl only but my lady that is untrue, even these married gorays deny that, marriage is a union of 2 families and the rest of the society judges on that and once ppl start finding things out in any what way they spread these news cuz there are ppl ready to make others look bad, sadly this is an unfortunate truth.
Lastly it depends on my situation at that point, as to how much i am willing to fight for this girl cuz no family accepts a RAPED, DIVORCED OR GIRL WITH A PAST, you have to fight for that and i have to be convinced cuz shaadi is not a joke where i will do this good deed now and then leave her if it turns out to be a mistake, this way i ruined the girls life twice :k: