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^ awww saieen paa ji tusi bare kute shueet ho
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Oh gosh, saieen, you are like the mushiest person i have ever seen!!!! Is there a throw up smiley here? :p
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i’m not the mushiest…there is gen. pravez mushie. he is the #1 mushiest person 
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Yah, :yukh: : yukh : lol
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hmm..this is tricky..id prolly be very attached to her (emotionally ofcourse)...so if i wud marry it'd prolly be to someone who's very similar to her..so yeh if she has a younger sister..
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no luck there either but then she is 1 in like the whole galaxy 
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Nahiiiii not for you, i was just telling her the smiley
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RasulAllah married after Khadijah (r) died. How dare anyone say you shouldn't.
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I don't know why but its just a gut feeling I have that I don't think I would
re-marry if, Khudah na khasta, my wife died.
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I don't think anyone said you should NOT remarry, but rather that they dont feel they could wnat to marry someone else.
Yes, the Prophet SAW did re-marry and he did love his wife but does that mean any other man should or is under any obligation to remarry? No.
Prophet SAW also treated his wives with the utmost love and kindness but you have men who argue its their right to beat their wives, and then some who dn't want to be loving and kind to their wives because they think it will diminish thier authority/respect.
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Yes, the Prophet SAW did re-marry and he did love his wife but does that give a widower hte right to marry a woman within a month after his wife's death without giving thought to his children's feelings about it? No.
We have the right to do anything halal.
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I doubt marrying a such a short while after ur spouse's death is moral or right but whatever.
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Yes, the Prophet SAW did re-marry and he did love his wife but does that mean any other man should or is under any obligation to remarry? No.
Prophet SAW also treated his wives with the utmost love and kindness but you have men who argue its their right to beat their wives, and then some who dn't want to be loving and kind to their wives because they think it will diminish thier authority/respect.
Taking a page out of my book eh? Indirect reference? :)
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remarry if your spouse died?
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Maybe it depends u always can fall in love with some1.
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I don't think there is anything wrong with remarrying. I don't think it is a betrayal of the love you feel for your first spouse.
I can't imagine myself marryied to anyone else. But I do think that it would depend on when in my life I lost my spouse. I would certainly need a lot of time before I would consider it.
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NO
My Dada remarried after his wife died... leaving my Dad and two younger brothers.
MY step-Dadi and him had 7 more kids.
My mum was the oldest bahu in the house and they were nasty to her, because of that reason I can't stand them. My mum is an angel.
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Til this day my parents have always treated them as you would expect to treat brothers/sisters, no different, but there's no deep sincerity towards us from their behalf...
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Mr Mullah jee -nobody in this thread said you shouldnt remarry. we are not talking about religion here...we're talking about personal preferences. as Islam does not say we should or shouldnt remarry....hence religion does not come into this matter.
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where there is love there is no mention of “my rights” and “your rights”…i.e. between a husband a wife who truly love each other
everyone else who replied in this thread -you made some really good points :k:
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That might be true but non-muslims can have relationships out of wedlock so I think they have an easier time being unmarried because they can still have a companion.