remarry if your spouse died?
what if ur engaged and something happens to your spouse?
what if ur not even engaged yet.
what would you do?
they say love is forever…does that mean a person shouldnt remarry after their spouses death?
if a person does remarry, then in the next life, which wife/husband will they be with? what if a guy has 4 wives…in the next life which one will he be with? or if a woman marries more than once…who will she be with in the next life?
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I certainly would if I had some children, otherwise I'd have to think about it.
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maybe not, but then again maybe i would...the world can be a lonely place if there's no-one to share it with.
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…so what would be holding you back? 
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Yes i would. Plus in heaven arent you supposed to get like 60 virgins, so hows your wife(ves) gonna feel about this?
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Years ago i was engaged to a great guy but he died in an accident 3 months b4 our wedding. I never thought id even think abt eva marrying any1 eva again cos i thought he was my only true love in the world. I was totally withdrawn from every1 for a long time and i had no interest in meeting any1...all i could think of was him. However totally by chance (2 yrs later) i met my hubby and we fell in love and within 2 months of meeting we got married. Yeh some would say it was totally rushed, part of it was fear within me thinking he would be taken away from me as well but allhamdullilah we r really happy and have a little girl as well. I dont know how things wud have turned out if i wud have married my 1st fiancee but im very grateful to have found my hubby cos i really neva thought i could eva b happy again.
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love
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i would remarry if i don,t have kids:) ...............
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thats really nice to hear masha-allah:)
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what has kids got to do with remarrying or not?
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^
Kids need a mother to look after them. Duh!
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Would you?
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no. would you?
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I am of the opinion that anyone is capable of moving on...and if they dont they just feel its disrespectful to the deceased...everyine can learn to love again...i know people whos hearts have been broken but they move on and learn to love again...its probably even easier with someone deceased as they arent there...a lot of people with exes find it hard to move on cos their ex is always around...
As for the guy who mentions getting married for the kids...i reckon its easier if there arent kids...your kids arent going to be pleased to meet a new mummy...they'll assume you dont care that their mum has died cos you move on so easily...Also your kids are more likely to consume your life at that point so you would be less worried about remarrying...
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That's odd, parents here (non-desi) usually give their kids more consideration as to whether they will remarry or not; women will work to earn money and support themselves (if they weren't before), men will start doing the housework as well (if eh wasnt' before). Death of a parent is a big enough tragedy for them, but marrying another woman w/o thinking of how it'll affect your kids, that seems a tad inconsiderate becuase it shows that all you need is a maid and someone to have sex with.
Stepmothers can be good parents too, but you have to make sure you marry the right woman, a woman that your kids love and adore. You can never replace your wife and they will never replace thier mother.
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...in so many words, that's spot on!
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its easier to remarry after a divorce/breakup.....cuz u would hate the person who you broke up with.
its much harder to remarry after your loved one has died....cuz you will still love them alot...there will be nothing u can hate about them....(if you know what im trying to say?)
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People love and lose all the time in life...
A divorce or breakup isnt neccesarily easier...if you love the person...you still love them even if they have wronged you...you can hate them but its not easy to get over by any means...you get hurt because you love the person...only your loved ones cause you pain in the first place...so a breakup doesnt make life easier...the person still exists and its difficult to move on...
Atleast with someone deceased you can come to the realisation that their is finality...and you can move on...its just if one wants to do it...i just reckon most people feel guility to move on...we are all capable of it we just choose not to...
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I dont think you can sit behind the computer and think about issue this far in life.But...
I would only be with someone if i am madly in love with that person. and spending glorious years with them for so many years and losing them one day.[just the thought of brings shivers to me]
I would never ever think of doing it again. I strongly believe there is a soul connection between people. Once i am with that person and spent so many wonderful years with them, had kids with them etc. I don't think there would be any other man who can take their place.
I don't take marriage to have sex legally or just to fullfil your sexual desires. I think marriage is much more sacred then that. Its love and beautiful bond between two people, care, doing little little things for each other, dreaming together, viewing things together etc...
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i’d die without her bcoz a life without her won’t be worth living anyways 
