if you loved soemone but when you were not together he had sex with another girl would you still marry him ? just a hypothetical quesiton.
just want to know how girls think.
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You can marry the person you love, but you should marry the person who loves you.
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Nope. In your case, definitely no.
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Depends. There's a difference between zina and sex that is halal. If this question is about you...and if the guy you like had married a girl he never liked from the beginning and slept with her....yeah it's halal...but I find it disturbing.
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Depends. There's a difference between zina and sex that is halal. If this question is about you...and if the guy you like had married a girl he never liked from the beginning and slept with her....yeah it's halal...but I find it disturbing.
No. No way.
How can you love somebody if he's out sleeping with some other girl? Was this love completely unrequited ?? If not and he was involved with you some how then definitely NOT!!
Even if it was unrequited love and he had absolutely no idea of your 'love' I still don't really like what sleeping with another girl and then telling people about it says about this guy's character. Is this really the type of person you want for your husband ?? Didn't think so.
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No. No way.
How can you love somebody if he's out sleeping with some other girl? Was this love completely unrequited ?? If not and he was involved with you some how then definitely NOT!!
Even if it was unrequited love and he had absolutely no idea of your 'love' I still don't really like what sleeping with another girl and then telling people about it says about this guy's character. Is this really the type of person you want for your husband ?? Didn't think so.
This thread is related to OPs other thread. Basically here's the story OP had a boyfriend. For various reasons, the guy's family supposedly "forced" him to marry another girl. So he got married. The sexual relationship OP is asking about here is in reference to the guy sleeping with this wife. Now the guy is in the process of divorcing that girl. He is telling OP that he never loved that girl, wants her back in his life etc. Oh, and if I remember right, OP was in touch with the guy while he was married/living with his wife.
OP made a comment in that other thread about how the guy's parents forced him to marry that girl. I responded saying that it's not like they held a gun to his head. And his "love" for OP didn't stop him from having a sexual relationship with that girl (I'm pretty sure no one was in that bedroom with them forcing him to do it all). This thread is in response to these comments.
OP does not understand that the issue is not the guy having sex with his wife. The problem is him having sex with a girl who he claims he never loved, and during that time, according to him he was in love with OP. This is the character issue I was trying to point out bur clearly it was a big failure.
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This thread is related to OPs other thread. Basically here's the story OP had a boyfriend. For various reasons, the guy's family supposedly "forced" him to marry another girl. So he got married. The sexual relationship OP is asking about here is in reference to the guy sleeping with this wife. Now the guy is in the process of divorcing that girl. He is telling OP that he never loved that girl, wants her back in his life etc. Oh, and if I remember right, OP was in touch with the guy while he was married/living with his wife.
OP made a comment in that other thread about how the guy's parents forced him to marry that girl. I responded saying that it's not like they held a gun to his head. And his "love" for OP didn't stop him from having a sexual relationship with that girl (I'm pretty sure no one was in that bedroom with them forcing him to do it all). This thread is in response to these comments.
OP does not understand that the issue is not the guy having sex with his wife. The problem is him having sex with a girl who he claims he never loved, and during that time, according to him he was in love with OP. This is the character issue I was trying to point out bur clearly it was a big failure.
It is common with desis to get in bed with their spouse even if they don't love them. There are countless examples where the husband treats his wife really bad, beats her routinely, does drugs and does not earn but every year or so they bring a child into this world.
May be in darkness they become humans after all!
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It is common with desis to get in bed with their spouse even if they don't love them.
Oh I know that. The question here (per OP) is whether the women of GS would marry a guy like this.
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This thread is related to OPs other thread. Basically here's the story OP had a boyfriend. For various reasons, the guy's family supposedly "forced" him to marry another girl. So he got married. The sexual relationship OP is asking about here is in reference to the guy sleeping with this wife. Now the guy is in the process of divorcing that girl. He is telling OP that he never loved that girl, wants her back in his life etc. Oh, and if I remember right, OP was in touch with the guy while he was married/living with his wife.
OP made a comment in that other thread about how the guy's parents forced him to marry that girl. I responded saying that it's not like they held a gun to his head. And his "love" for OP didn't stop him from having a sexual relationship with that girl (I'm pretty sure no one was in that bedroom with them forcing him to do it all). This thread is in response to these comments.
OP does not understand that the issue is not the guy having sex with his wife. The problem is him having sex with a girl who he claims he never loved, and during that time, according to him he was in love with OP. This is the character issue I was trying to point out bur clearly it was a big failure.
good lord;
so a girl's life is basically getting ruined.
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its not about my story .. he did nt have sex with her .. im just asking a question for general knowledge .. this paheli person is trying to get everyone riled up because maybe this story has touched a sore spot with her somehow thats why shes taking it upon her to comment in each and every thread of mine and tell people the story as if she knows every single detail when shes doesnt understand anything .. or maybe shes just hunts gs looking for fights cause shes bored i dont know .. whatever
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Ice Baby: Based on your past threads, this thread is about to your situation.
Do you know Ashfaq Ahemd. He once said that when foolish person ask your opinion he would like to hear same opinion what he has in his mind.
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if you loved soemone but when you were not together he had sex with another girl would you still marry him ? just a hypothetical quesiton. just want to know how girls think.
He wasn't with me and therefore not committed to me.
If he was sincere, honest and cared for me then yes I would marry him.
Everyone has a past and should be honest about it - its great that he trusts you enough to tell you.
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Sure I would marry a guy that had sex with another girl when he was not with me even if he said that he was in love with me because it's just that easy to get aroused and attracted to another person when a guy says he is only in love with me because it's just that impossible to control himself.
Would you stay married to him if he says he does by accident have sex with another girl(again)? If he was "forced" to marry another girl when he was in love with you and he was a respectable man, he would not have had sex with her and marriage is a huge decision that a guy does not enter by force or impulse because he will cause pain to so many people if he ends up screwing it up including the person he was "forced" to marry and the person he says he is in love with. He's a grown up not a child, now that girl is divorced and not a virgin anymore, her life's gone down the drain by this selfish guy.
Sure go ahead and marry him.
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All depends on whether he loves me or not. If I love him but he don't love me and we're marrying because I will be his co-wife or something then yes it will still hurt but I can overlook it.
But if I loved him and he said he loved me but still slept with someone else then no. We might not be together but that would still feel like cheating in my eyes. If you love someone why would you want to sleep with someone else
If this man is you - I really suggest you do not marry the woman you claim you love. You clearly don't love or respect her (or your religion for that matter) if you just happily jumped into bed with some ho
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Sure I would marry a guy that had sex with another girl when he was not with me even if he said that he was in love with me because it's just that easy to get aroused and attracted to another person when a guy says he is only in love with me because it's just that impossible to control himself.
Would you stay married to him if he says he does by accident have sex with another girl(again)? If he was "forced" to marry another girl when he was in love with you and he was a respectable man, he would not have had sex with her and marriage is a huge decision that a guy does not enter by force or impulse because he will cause pain to so many people if he ends up screwing it up including the person he was "forced" to marry and the person he says he is in love with. He's a grown up not a child, now that girl is divorced and not a virgin anymore, her life's gone down the drain by this selfish guy.
Sure go ahead and marry him.
um shes wasnt a virgin entering into the marriage .. she was already married before .. this is her second marriage and his first . and i have no evidence that he slept with her. what i heard was that he didnt go near her.
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Ah....marrying a woman who already went through one bad marriage, never even going near her, and then divorcing her b/c you were already in love with a girl BEFORE the nikah even took place.
I tell ya.....gives me hope for our future generation. Who wouldn't want to pass on values like this? :)
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Makes me think what kind of a person is he?
than the one who is still in love with him. This is a carzy world I can tell ya 
If you are marrying someone marry for the right reasons. If he was so much in love with you that he never went near a halal married wife, why did he marry her at first place?
I dont think you need a rocket science to understand this.
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for revenge .. not sex
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if you understand him so perfectly inside out and he has clean chit from you for everything he did.
Why are wasting our precious time. 
Next poster please 
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excuse me ? what do you mean ‘for everything he did’ .. were you there do you know every single thing he has done ? for ll i know hes still a virgin .. he s a god fearing guy who reads namaz and is a decent person so please dont act like you know him